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by Naljeans
Sun Aug 07, 2022 2:26 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: After you are allowed to ejaculate?
Replies: 24
Views: 12593
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Re: After you are allowed to ejaculate?

I don’t crash like I used to, and it kicks in the hormones to make me much hornier the following few days. These days that tails off for a couple of weeks then I start getting desperate again. My owner has made me ejaculate (widely varying degrees of orgasm) over the past few months since the crash ...
by Naljeans
Fri Feb 11, 2022 3:17 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Testicle changes during the day and right cage setup
Replies: 5
Views: 1380
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Re: Testicle changes during the day and right cage setup

The right lubrication is key as your balls evolve through the day. Early on, I had to have lotion around to settle intermittent burns. If that doesn’t work, the ring is just too small. That steady use of lotion worked for me - keeps stuff from sticking. I don’t know if this will help, but can’t hurt...
by Naljeans
Wed Feb 09, 2022 4:19 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Changes after 11 years 24/7 lockup
Replies: 1
Views: 1609
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Re: Changes after 11 years 24/7 lockup

What a lifelong escapade! All the best to you and yours.
by Naljeans
Mon Feb 07, 2022 6:34 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Advice, my story so far and blue balls
Replies: 10
Views: 4391
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Re: Advice, my story so far and blue balls

I’m not a doctor but teasing without release leads to swollen balls. I have years of evidence - any time my cage has gotten off but I haven’t, it’s extraordinarily difficult to get the base ring back on. Lumps and whatnot seem to be a medical concern. Generally you’ll find over time your body adjust...
by Naljeans
Thu Jan 20, 2022 3:44 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Getting used to cum less and less often...
Replies: 21
Views: 7173
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Re: Getting used to cum less and less often...

It took a while for me to adjust as the durations got longer than one week then two weeks. It’s a gradual process. My owner in the last year observed that I function better without full orgasms. So, with similar intervals of 4 or 5 weeks, I’m most likely having a ruined orgasm. I don’t like it in th...
by Naljeans
Mon Jan 03, 2022 3:58 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Time in cage and post-orgasm blues
Replies: 6
Views: 1854
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Re: Time in cage and post-orgasm blues

Over the past few years, my owner noticed this exact dip with me when given a full orgasm. Looking back, I can see she was testing this theory and now it’s an open fact. It also became more severe as my orgasms became less frequent. She is masterful at ruining orgasms, and I never know her plans. In...
by Naljeans
Fri Dec 31, 2021 4:04 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: First walk and experience with cage
Replies: 6
Views: 2681
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Re: First walk and experience with cage

I had that happen on a hike. While I always sit to pee, I hate squatting. If the cage is fitting just right, I can stand but it’s risky.
by Naljeans
Fri Dec 31, 2021 4:00 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Stints in chastity vs. locked when "not in use"
Replies: 9
Views: 2582
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Re: Stints in chastity vs. locked when "not in use"

The switch flipped for me when I realized I was locked at my owner’s discretion. That’s what prompted the ownership talk and crystallized our relationship. She has kept me locked at times I desperately wanted out and vice versa. It took months to sink in that I have no say in the matter and that her...
by Naljeans
Tue Dec 21, 2021 4:14 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Prostate relief
Replies: 9
Views: 3520
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Re: Prostate relief

Combination of device and technique. I suggest trying multiple toys, and a lot of practice. Take your time and find what feels good and what produces results. Ideally your KH gets involved, both for fun and effectiveness.
by Naljeans
Fri Dec 10, 2021 2:41 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Newbie Needs Help
Replies: 11
Views: 2824
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Re: Newbie Needs Help

You’ll regret getting a cage with room for growth. Far more comfortable if the cage stops the growth before it gets started. Also eases the tugging on the base ring.