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by Naljeans
Thu Jan 20, 2022 3:44 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Getting used to cum less and less often...
Replies: 15
Views: 855
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Re: Getting used to cum less and less often...

It took a while for me to adjust as the durations got longer than one week then two weeks. It’s a gradual process. My owner in the last year observed that I function better without full orgasms. So, with similar intervals of 4 or 5 weeks, I’m most likely having a ruined orgasm. I don’t like it in th...
by Naljeans
Mon Jan 03, 2022 3:58 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Time in cage and post-orgasm blues
Replies: 6
Views: 727
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Re: Time in cage and post-orgasm blues

Over the past few years, my owner noticed this exact dip with me when given a full orgasm. Looking back, I can see she was testing this theory and now it’s an open fact. It also became more severe as my orgasms became less frequent. She is masterful at ruining orgasms, and I never know her plans. In...
by Naljeans
Fri Dec 31, 2021 4:04 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: First walk and experience with cage
Replies: 6
Views: 673
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Re: First walk and experience with cage

I had that happen on a hike. While I always sit to pee, I hate squatting. If the cage is fitting just right, I can stand but it’s risky.
by Naljeans
Fri Dec 31, 2021 4:00 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Stints in chastity vs. locked when "not in use"
Replies: 9
Views: 1135
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Re: Stints in chastity vs. locked when "not in use"

The switch flipped for me when I realized I was locked at my owner’s discretion. That’s what prompted the ownership talk and crystallized our relationship. She has kept me locked at times I desperately wanted out and vice versa. It took months to sink in that I have no say in the matter and that her...
by Naljeans
Tue Dec 21, 2021 4:14 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Prostate relief
Replies: 9
Views: 1295
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Re: Prostate relief

Combination of device and technique. I suggest trying multiple toys, and a lot of practice. Take your time and find what feels good and what produces results. Ideally your KH gets involved, both for fun and effectiveness.
by Naljeans
Fri Dec 10, 2021 2:41 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Newbie Needs Help
Replies: 11
Views: 747
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Re: Newbie Needs Help

You’ll regret getting a cage with room for growth. Far more comfortable if the cage stops the growth before it gets started. Also eases the tugging on the base ring.
by Naljeans
Thu Dec 09, 2021 3:23 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Night Training, issues
Replies: 3
Views: 646
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Re: Night Training, issues

Also, you’re right to continue with underwear. I stuck with panties as well for the support. Boxer briefs weren’t an option but likely would help at night.
by Naljeans
Thu Dec 09, 2021 3:21 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Night Training, issues
Replies: 3
Views: 646
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Re: Night Training, issues

Probably not much. I suggest switching from Vaseline to a lotion. This takes trial and error until he finds what works. If the ring is fitting properly, then the redness may be from friction from straining. My experience with burning is normally due to dryness. Cold temps also make things tighter an...
by Naljeans
Tue Aug 24, 2021 2:26 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Cage and foreskin
Replies: 4
Views: 917
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Re: Cage and foreskin

Thanks for the feedback. Pushing it back hasn’t worked. The pressure from the head and friction keep it from scooting back. It’s opened an entirely new avenue of torment, so my owner is pleased by the arrangement. And it makes my uncagings particularly…unique.
by Naljeans
Thu Aug 19, 2021 7:58 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Cage and foreskin
Replies: 4
Views: 917
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Cage and foreskin

I’ve chronicled my cages through the years in My Journey, and am curious about how some of yours fit. In all previous cages (mainly MCN Contender and Cherry Keeper), my short foreskin would normally remain behind the glans in the cage. This allowed attempted erections to expand through the bars and ...