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by bendi
Thu Mar 15, 2018 12:15 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: going back into chastity, need advice
Replies: 11
Views: 4881

Re: going back into chastity, need advice

My best experience riding was with the Dickcage Duo. The reason I find it works so well versus other ball trap devices is one's testicles are pushed together as opposed to apart. Ah, thank you, I shall see what my KH says. She generally prefers solid devices, but if this means I can wear it to work...
by bendi
Sun Mar 11, 2018 4:13 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Why" narrative
Replies: 5
Views: 3057

Re: "Why" narrative

For me, the main driving force is 24/7 bondage. If I'm in a really boring meeting at work, I can just roll my hips a little to make better contact with the cage and think to myself: "I'm being kinky right now, and you schmucks don't even know I'm doing it!"
by bendi
Sun Mar 11, 2018 4:00 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: going back into chastity, need advice
Replies: 11
Views: 4881

Re: going back into chastity, need advice

I would LOVE to get away from ball-trap devices, but I'm not sure I could cope with having my penis pierced... Yes, the bikes are upright hybrids. I'm not sure that the saddle is necessarily the problem, though. I think it's more the fact that the ball-trap ring splays my balls out, so they keep get...
by bendi
Fri Mar 09, 2018 4:43 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: going back into chastity, need advice
Replies: 11
Views: 4881

Re: going back into chastity, need advice

It's a fair point. That would require me to carry my key with me, which she did let me do last time. I may be able to bargain for not wearing the device at work at all; that would solve a lot of problems. Let's face it: it's not like I'm going to beat my meat on the job...
by bendi
Thu Mar 08, 2018 7:12 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: going back into chastity, need advice
Replies: 11
Views: 4881

Re: going back into chastity, need advice

Ah, I hadn't considered that. I'm using a bike-share program at the moment, but I'm not above buying a bike if it makes everything else work. Many thanks for the suggestion!
by bendi
Thu Mar 08, 2018 3:04 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: going back into chastity, need advice
Replies: 11
Views: 4881

going back into chastity, need advice

Hi everyone! I'm getting back together with my ex after about a year of being apart, and chastity is a BIG thing for her. Back then, I wore a cage for about 6 months. We just about made it work, but I made a LOT of mistakes (some of them VERY painful). If you guys have any advice, I'm all ears! The ...
by bendi
Thu Mar 08, 2018 2:03 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Hello world" thread
Replies: 5524
Views: 2395279

Re: "Hello world" thread

Hello world!

I'm getting back together with my ex, and chastity is a BIG thing for her. It's not a deal breaker for me, but I had some really painful experiences last time. I was hoping you guys might have some advice; I'll put that in a separate post though.