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by Xileh
Wed May 24, 2023 8:58 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Four years and my thanks to everyone.
Replies: 2
Views: 2137

Re: Four years and my thanks to everyone.

Congratulations! We are in our fifth year. Prior to chastity and FLR, our long marriage was in trouble. Now, we talk more, we talk openly about subjects that we never talked about. We talk more, period. We are now closer than ever and as deeply in love as when we first met. Chastity was never a kink...
by Xileh
Tue May 23, 2023 9:46 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: What is it like to wear chasity permanently
Replies: 28
Views: 30325

Re: What is it like to wear chasity permanently

We prefer the term “Full Time Chastity”. It comes off for certain appointments, air travel, and when she decides to.
by Xileh
Mon May 22, 2023 10:07 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Masculine Male Chastity
Replies: 21
Views: 12170

Re: Masculine Male Chastity

Tom Allen wrote: Tue May 16, 2023 11:54 am I just happen to be having several different discussions about the idea of being locked as inherently emasculating.
In our case, not at all. She likes the control, but she still wants her man. I am more submissive to her when locked, but all else remains as before. We do not practice humiliation.
by Xileh
Thu Apr 20, 2023 8:30 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: The Dick of Theseus
Replies: 2
Views: 1476

Re: The Dick of Theseus

After some time, every single board and mast has been replaced. Is it still Theseus' ship, even though there's nothing original? Yet the spirit remains. Ships have personalities and I dare say a spirit due to her experiences and the people that have sailed in her. Although she may look fresh after ...
by Xileh
Tue Mar 07, 2023 7:10 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Submissive headspace during sex?
Replies: 4
Views: 2338

Re: Submissive headspace during sex?

“But there's a lot of layers to this” Absolutely. I don’t think anyone can deny your statement. You both have done a great job communicating. She has told you exactly what she wants from you. What would be the harm in doing exactly what she has asked for? That is her starting to be more dominant. No...
by Xileh
Wed Oct 12, 2022 8:26 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Thank you for a place to "talk."
Replies: 4
Views: 1691

Re: Thank you for a place to "talk."

It is unfortunate that most information about chastity, doesn’t let it stand on its own. Most often it is grouped with other kinks. That this site does not, makes it unique.
by Xileh
Wed Oct 12, 2022 8:22 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: I am a new keyholder
Replies: 4
Views: 3626

Re: I am a new keyholder

That’s great. My keyholder seems to have also taken charge of the key to my truck. She doesn’t wear it on a necklace, but none the less…

She does let me borrow it when there is stuff to be done.
by Xileh
Sun Oct 02, 2022 11:41 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity/FLR Agreement
Replies: 5
Views: 3478

Re: Chastity/FLR Agreement

Sam3655 wrote: Sat Oct 01, 2022 10:06 am Isn’t marriage what’s her’s is her’s and what is our’s her’s also by it’s very nature?? Think this is beyond the cage
But, but a man's truck is sacred!
by Xileh
Wed Sep 28, 2022 12:04 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: FRRK?
Replies: 11
Views: 5368

Re: FRRK?

One issue I have discovered with barrel locks, is it can be nearly impossible to change the gap. With a padlock, it is usually easy to adjust by bending the post.
by Xileh
Wed Sep 28, 2022 12:01 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity/FLR Agreement
Replies: 5
Views: 3478

Re: Chastity/FLR Agreement

Tom Allen wrote: Wed Sep 28, 2022 10:51 am Sounds like a hard limit. You need to have a chat about boundaries.
Yea, I may be headed out to the machine shop to alter our agreement…