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by Steve2059
Mon Jul 08, 2024 10:12 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: When you know that you were meant for chastity?
Replies: 3
Views: 19458
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Re: When you know that you were meant for chastity?

I found chastity was a thing for me when I found out chastity was a thing - about eight years ago. Talk about a sheltered life! I've gotten much more kinky since then.
by Steve2059
Mon Jul 08, 2024 10:09 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Risk of damage from male chastity or Is it unbreakable?
Replies: 6
Views: 17496
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Re: Risk of damage from male chastity or Is it unbreakable?

Doctors will say to avoid chastity in case they get sued by someone who does it badly. Short of trying to weld the cage shut I'd say you are right.
by Steve2059
Sat Jul 06, 2024 8:20 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Chastity and retirement
Replies: 7
Views: 17656
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Re: Chastity and retirement

Having much leisure and no kids around has given us the space to explore repressed kinks over the last few years (we were fortunate to be able to retire in our mid-fifties). I've talked before about how chastity and submission got off to a rocky start, but when we were working hard and parenting har...
by Steve2059
Sun Jun 23, 2024 7:24 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Change in wifes mood when you are caged.
Replies: 3
Views: 20665
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Re: Change in wifes mood when you are caged.

Yes indeed. It took a while for my wife to shed the guilt of her getting the lion's share of pleasure when having caged sex. Back in my day a girlfriend who started something she didn't finish was labelled a cockteaser (not by me I hasten to add). Once She "got" that denial of orgasms, and...
by Steve2059
Tue Jun 04, 2024 11:26 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Time without orgasm
Replies: 62
Views: 113495
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Re: Time without orgasm

Time since last full penile orgasm, approximately four and a half years.
Time since last ruin (proper ruin, not just taking one's hand away a second before spurting), three months.
Time since last anal orgasm, three weeks.
by Steve2059
Tue Jun 04, 2024 11:16 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Fantasy vs Reality.
Replies: 9
Views: 68087
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Re: Fantasy vs Reality.

She used to cage me for long periods (multi-week, longest 5 weeks) and we found that after the first week or so I stopped being so frustrated and sort of accepted my situation. For some time now I've been caged for 4-5 days, then as I settle down She uncages me for 2-3 days, then back in. There are ...
by Steve2059
Thu May 09, 2024 9:01 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Is a Cage Necessary to be in Chastity?
Replies: 4
Views: 18935
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Re: Is a Cage Necessary to be in Chastity?

No it isn't. I've been in chastity for years and haven't had a full penile orgasm (as opposed to a ruin or anal orgasm) for approaching four years. But I'm only caged for around 50-60% of the time. When caged we do what it says on the tin - the penis is out-of-bounds. But I can give and receive plea...
by Steve2059
Thu May 09, 2024 9:00 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Is a Cage Necessary to be in Chastity?
Replies: 4
Views: 18935
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Re: Is a Cage Necessary to be in Chastity?

No it isn't. I've been in chastity for years and haven't had a full penile orgasm (as opposed to a ruin or anal orgasm) for approaching four years. But I'm only caged for around 50-60% of the time. When caged we do what it says on the tin - the penis is out-of-bounds. But I can give and receive plea...
by Steve2059
Mon Apr 22, 2024 10:31 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Emergency key horror stories
Replies: 17
Views: 51509
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Re: Emergency key horror stories

A few years ago we went on holiday for a week, day 5 of which was the start of Locktober. The idea was I'd be used thoroughly before a full month of 24/7 caging. Sadly didn't happen. The key was on the bed with our packing and then it wasn't. I thought She'd packed it, but She'd knocked it to the fl...
by Steve2059
Mon Apr 22, 2024 10:25 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Base ring advice?
Replies: 1
Views: 6950
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Re: Base ring advice?

I'm a curved ring proponent, but I'm afraid we're all different, and advice from any of us would just be saying what works for us and our bodies. Spend the dosh and see - it may be you like them both and switch from time to time.