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by Barkis
Sun Dec 24, 2017 3:50 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Merry Christmas
Replies: 2
Views: 1926

Re: Merry Christmas

May I add my Season’s Greetings:

A Very Merry Chastity and a Happy New Cage to you all :lol:
by Barkis
Sun Dec 17, 2017 12:11 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Hello world" thread
Replies: 5514
Views: 2153696

Re: "Hello world" thread

I've been locked pretty much straight for 2 weeks in a metal cage from House of Denial (pretty sure just a Chinese knock off). Seems I'm very lucky compared to many as my cage fits seemingly perfectly. Hi 'Miss Ds Cage Boy' and welcome. You're luckier than I was - I've had a couple of devices from ...
by Barkis
Sun Dec 17, 2017 7:27 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Transactional Chastity
Replies: 15
Views: 7501

Re: Transactional Chastity

For my wife and I, the answer to the question, "is chastity about powerplay and chores, or about sexual and romantic connection", is that it's both. I don't find the two exclusive at all; the powerplay between us is entirely consensual... Absolutely. To quote the first guiding principle i...
by Barkis
Fri Dec 15, 2017 12:21 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Is this the end... or just the means?
Replies: 16
Views: 7711

Re: Is this the end... or just the means?

Tom Allen wrote:I wrote a little about it a long time ago:

https://vanillaedge.wordpress.com/2007/ ... ity-story/
Phew, that's some read :shock: . I'm off for a cold shower...

Seriously though, a fascinating insight. And no - I most definitely could NOT!
by Barkis
Thu Dec 14, 2017 6:10 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Is this the end... or just the means?
Replies: 16
Views: 7711

Is this the end... or just the means?

In the (admittedly short) time that I've been reading these forums, I've been struck by the number of Members that aspire to ever longer lockup periods, even, in some cases, permanent lockup with no hope of release - ever. This has got me wondering whether, for some people, chastity is an end in its...
by Barkis
Fri Dec 08, 2017 11:58 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How long have you been married?
Replies: 100
Views: 47957

Re: How long have you been married?

41 married and 9 months caged.
by Barkis
Thu Dec 07, 2017 9:10 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How did we get here?
Replies: 13
Views: 6933

Re: How did we get here?

I was wondering how people arrived at the chastity fetish. I’m sure that, if you’re like me, you didn’t even know male chastity was a thing. My wife and I have always had unbalanced sex drives. Interesting thread, and a very eloquent post, Tullyboy, if I may say so. (In fact, to digress for a momen...
by Barkis
Tue Dec 05, 2017 7:53 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Urethral tubes
Replies: 3
Views: 2814

Re: Urethral tubes

Good question. Sorry I can't offer advice, but I too am interested in other members' experience as I aspire to owning a Steelworxx Looker 01 at some point in the future.
by Barkis
Tue Dec 05, 2017 5:49 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Old fashioned
Replies: 7
Views: 3936

Re: Old fashioned

i am now always expected to open doors, including car doors, for Her and i am also expected to ensure She is seated before me, even with meals at home. Not into FLR, but I am also now expected to open car doors for Mrs B, on pain of extended lockup, and am spectacularly bad at it. I've lost count o...
by Barkis
Sun Dec 03, 2017 3:24 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Shaved Balls
Replies: 26
Views: 14697

Re: Shaved Balls

Tullyboy wrote:Laser light is your friend.
Not for grey hair :(