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by Schnoff
Sun Sep 15, 2019 10:27 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Time without orgasm
Replies: 34
Views: 2016
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Re: Time without orgasm

Neat! 2 1/2 years won’t happen for me, Bear likes to see me come too much for that - and, it’s a fun fantasy. Around here, ejaculation is orgasm, whether with or without stimulation during it or in the moments before it. Other couples define that differently. A woman on fet was relating her experien...
by Schnoff
Sun Sep 15, 2019 11:11 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: ... for some value of "vanilla."
Replies: 46
Views: 29863
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Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

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by Schnoff
Sun Sep 08, 2019 9:00 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Struggling with some feelings
Replies: 12
Views: 657
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Re: Struggling with some feelings

mr_faithful - there’s really no way to say. OP is unlikely to share what specific kinks are in play here, so it’s hard to say anything beyond what has been said. As an example of something that can cause overwhelming feelings of disgust, shame and self-hate: Being asked to fuck a partner anally wit...
by Schnoff
Thu Sep 05, 2019 8:13 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Are you worried that you will be stuck in the base ring or the lock can’t be unlocked
Replies: 14
Views: 898
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Re: Are you worried that you will be stuck in the base ring or the lock can’t be unlocked

Escape proof, no, not in a world with tools and hands. Escape only by damaging / destroying the device - sure. A Prince Albert piercing will make sure of that.
by Schnoff
Mon Aug 26, 2019 1:01 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Struggling with some feelings
Replies: 12
Views: 657
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Re: Struggling with some feelings

In addition to the resources Tom linked, which, of course he has those handy! :), consider going to a local “munch”? They are social meets in a vanilla setting - usually a restaurant - of local kinky people. You may overcome the revulsion and shame when you can connect it to people you know and like.
by Schnoff
Tue Aug 20, 2019 9:21 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Hello world" thread
Replies: 4106
Views: 750183
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Welcome to the forums. My general advice when it comes to partners: talk, talk early, and talk about your emotions. “I am nervous telling you about this”, this is how I feel when I wear this, and so on. And listen to what’s going on with them, ideally without pushback. Whether you can do that with t...
by Schnoff
Mon Aug 19, 2019 11:35 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Hello world" thread
Replies: 4106
Views: 750183
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Welcome! You’ll find an appreciative audience for your stories, though we can only pay in “likes” :).
by Schnoff
Sat Aug 17, 2019 7:47 pm
Forum: CF Marketplace
Topic: How to use PM for selling/buying
Replies: 9
Views: 318
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Re: How to use PM for selling/buying

That’s us. Square, responsible, sit-to-pee types who don’t even masturbate.
by Schnoff
Sat Aug 17, 2019 1:43 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Hello world" thread
Replies: 4106
Views: 750183
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Re: "Hello world" thread

With the caveat that you have decades of marriage and I have a nary a clue about your dynamic: What does she want? If she has a high sex drive, can you offer involvement? Sure it sounds like she has learned to make do with a vibrator. Human touch and intimacy is great, though. The immediate things t...
by Schnoff
Fri Aug 02, 2019 6:09 pm
Forum: Administrivia
Topic: Site maintenance completed
Replies: 5
Views: 328
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Re: Site maintenance 8/2 at 2pm EDT

This didn’t happen. Got too busy. No worries, we will find a new time :)