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by cuyahoga
Wed Mar 27, 2019 3:04 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Matrix of chastity
Replies: 31
Views: 1929

Re: Matrix of chastity

That’s awesome. I want to be somewhere between Hard and Flirty.

... and that’s a dirty sentence.
by cuyahoga
Wed Mar 27, 2019 10:00 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Matrix of chastity
Replies: 31
Views: 1929

Re: Matrix of chastity

I like where Steve2059 went with it. It’s similar to my feelings on it. I think of my sex life (and all of my desires and processes) as one sheet of paper that exists by itself. It is always there. Sometimes, another sheet gets laid in top, called denial. The first sheet shod still be there, but und...
by cuyahoga
Tue Oct 16, 2018 8:29 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Finding chastity friendly doctors
Replies: 17
Views: 1698

Re: Finding chastity friendly doctors

That’s funny. I was going to suggest someone should start a website. How naive of me to not realize someone would’ve already. It’s 2018. It’s all out there...
by cuyahoga
Sun Oct 14, 2018 7:48 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Newbie Questions
Replies: 5
Views: 632

Re: Newbie Questions

I can say that on my JB, the security screw has never come loose. Five to seven days, non-stop 24/7 wear, and I find it completely seated when I go to remove it. I don’t know why, but it was just never a problem for me. I had an extra bar added, and I found that when I was being teased, I swelled so...
by cuyahoga
Mon Oct 01, 2018 4:33 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Best beginner device? Looking for advise
Replies: 19
Views: 2263

Re: Best beginner device? Looking for advise

Thumper eventually got a UTI, and that changed his opinion. He was miserable, and re-assessed his risk vs. reward paradygm. Also, the inserts that are plastic tube with the metal end pieces ... those metal end pieces are threaded into the plastic tube. While there’s a 90% chance of nothing happening...
by cuyahoga
Fri Sep 28, 2018 9:22 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Best beginner device? Looking for advise
Replies: 19
Views: 2263

Re: Best beginner device? Looking for advise

Every penis is different from every other penis. Even better, your penis is different at 8AM vs 2PM vs 8PM. There is absolutely no chastity device that works for every penis. This ... hobby? fetish? lifestyle? ... can become expensive quickly. My personal experience says that you should measure as b...
by cuyahoga
Mon Sep 24, 2018 1:17 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [cuyahoga] Chapter Two
Replies: 182
Views: 44986

Re: [cuyahoga] Chapter Two

Thank you all, and also the number of private messages I’ve received. This is a great, supportive and caring community. There is a long standing issue in my marriage, unrelated to denial and chastity. It’s something I’ve tried unsuccessfully to address in the past. I thought I could ignore it. Denia...
by cuyahoga
Wed Sep 12, 2018 3:09 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [cuyahoga] Chapter Two
Replies: 182
Views: 44986

Re: [cuyahoga] Chapter Two

Something has gone very wrong ...

Thank you all. I think Chapter Two has ended. When I’m further away from this, maybe I’ll be able to collate my thoughts and emotions into something I can write about.

Right now, I’m just very sad.
by cuyahoga
Mon Sep 10, 2018 4:20 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: UK maker or customiser of chastity devices sought
Replies: 18
Views: 1952

Re: UK maker or customiser of chastity devices sought

“You see, I need a locking cage to keep the rabbits away from my very small carrot. Yes, there’s just one carrot...”
by cuyahoga
Mon Sep 10, 2018 4:16 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [cuyahoga] Chapter Two
Replies: 182
Views: 44986

Re: [cuyahoga] Chapter Two

A couple or more years ago, during a denial period in our sex life, my wife was out of town for an evening, and texted me sexy instructions to tease myself. Nothing intricate, just “take it off”, do this many edges, edges again, put it back on. For years, I’ve wished she would do that again. For a f...