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by cuyahoga
Thu Jun 13, 2019 6:50 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: We need a new term for "reverse pegging"
Replies: 7
Views: 258

Re: We need a new term for "reverse pegging"

Delving?

Dilving.
by cuyahoga
Sun Jun 02, 2019 6:30 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [cuyahoga] Chapter Two
Replies: 189
Views: 47167

Re: [cuyahoga] Chapter Two

It was a very good talk. After ten years of marriage and sixteen years together, lines of communication can be renegotiated or redefined or ... something. We both have things we need to pay more attention to, to make it work. We both want it to work. We we’re drifting apart for the last ten months, ...
by cuyahoga
Fri May 31, 2019 9:18 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How would you respond
Replies: 11
Views: 446

Re: How would you respond

I have heard this before, both in a passionate moment and not, and I responded with a deep sigh and a hug as the cage became much tighter. I believe I then whispered, “It’s totally your call,” or something to that effect.
by cuyahoga
Fri May 17, 2019 12:39 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Ring Sizing
Replies: 10
Views: 867

Re: Ring Sizing

Mature Metal will sell and ship a set of sizing rings. That’s always a good option. I had an idea of the size ring I would need before my first order from playing with variously sized steel cock rings, so maybe order a couple of those and experiment with those first. They often come in packs of thre...
by cuyahoga
Thu May 16, 2019 8:05 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Earliest Chastity memories?
Replies: 15
Views: 840

Re: Earliest Chastity memories?

I cut my Gates of Hell apart and used the rings as cock and head rings. 😁
by cuyahoga
Wed May 15, 2019 5:38 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Earliest Chastity memories?
Replies: 15
Views: 840

Re: Earliest Chastity memories?

‘96 ... just moved to a big city from a small midwest town. I ventured into my first “real” sex toy store. My previous exposure had been limited to The Lion’s Den out by the highway. I was like a kid in a candy store with no guardian. Eventually, I settled on a leather strap and metal ring contrapti...
by cuyahoga
Mon May 13, 2019 4:40 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [cuyahoga] Chapter Two
Replies: 189
Views: 47167

Re: [cuyahoga] Chapter Two

Small clue last night. May is busy, almost every weekend filled with family activities and trips. June 1st is currently empty. She’s thinking of getting us a babysitter and having her side of our long talk then, and she emphasized a couple of times that she is thinking, “giving over head space to it...
by cuyahoga
Sat May 11, 2019 11:19 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [cuyahoga] Chapter Two
Replies: 189
Views: 47167

Re: [cuyahoga] Chapter Two

When I told my wife a few days ago that I was thinking of foregoing orgasms for a while, I also mentioned to her that I might wear the cage a bit, too. After the kids were in bed last night, I thought it might be a good time to do that, the first time in her presence since September. I kind of ‘clea...
by cuyahoga
Fri May 10, 2019 9:10 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [cuyahoga] Chapter Two
Replies: 189
Views: 47167

Re: [cuyahoga] Chapter Two

In September, when things went wrong, I told this forum that it was an issue in my marriage unrelated to denial and chastity, and that was true. It’s an issue my wife carries into our marriage. I could probably be better about how I handle it sometimes. Since January, she’s been trying here and ther...
by cuyahoga
Thu May 09, 2019 9:26 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Growers and Showers Base Ring Design
Replies: 6
Views: 754

Re: Growers and Showers Base Ring Design

I do some ‘odd’ things when I’m left alone with my sex toys. One time, I tried tying butcher string to three places on the base ring, left, right and under, and then tied them all together around my waist and under my butt at the small of my back. A make-shift “harness” to keep the base ring from ha...