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My partner and I have been kinky since we met > 15 years ago, and she's been full time in charge of my orgasms for at least the last 8 or 9 years. We're both switches, but I never come or masturbate without her permission. Sometimes it's given freely, sometimes I have to go more than a month (and ra...

Or, put another way, don't be frustrated because you can't find a perfect device, be frustrated because you can't have an orgasm!

Thanks for all the replies! I often think it might be easier for me with a secure 24/7 device that I don't have keys for, since I wouldn't have to depend as much on my own willpower and discipline. The way we use the device gets us most of the way there, however, since it's on pretty much any time I...

Many of the threads here are focused on a search for a "perfect" chastity device. That is, many here seem to need a device that's comfortable and unobtrusive enough to be worn 24/7 for extended periods (weeks? months?) and secure enough to prevent masturbation (and maybe even erection) wit...

Some background: We've been playing with denial and chastity for quite a while. Lately our style is we go for a while where I can have as many orgasms as I want for a while, and then at some point my KH sharply restricts me, usually not letting me cum for a week to a month. So it's been about two we...

I have similar dimensions as you do. We went through a LOT of devices before settling on a mature metal with a short cage. Much more comfortable for long term use for me. I found that if the cage allows a partial erection, that's much less comfortable that stopping it from the start. The longest I w...

If you want an actual Punishment - with a capital P - it has to be something you don't truly enjoy and won't seek out. That might or might not be what you're looking for. With my partner, we do all sorts of things that would seem like punishments, but that we both actually like a lot - chastity, spa...

Hi, Just created my account. My wife and I have been playing with chastity and related fun for over 10 years now. I don't generally wear a device, but do have a Mature Metal cage that I've had some success wearing for a few days at a time. But we're both more interested in orgasm denial than in the ...