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by sirmebane
Sat Sep 14, 2019 8:51 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Dreams
Replies: 17
Views: 999

Re: Dreams

Again... last night. I don't have sex dreams. They are so rare. Now I've had two within a week. I can't remember specific details but I was allowed to cum in my cage but thrusting at a pillow? or bed? but I was able to get over the edge in my dream and had an amazing orgasm and ejaculation. I woke u...
by sirmebane
Wed Sep 11, 2019 3:26 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!
Replies: 160
Views: 67257

Re: [SirMebane] I'm excited for chastity, MAYBE SHE IS TOO!

Wow. I took the summer off from doing updates to my journal? My last update is from June 15 so I'm nearly three months behind schedule. It got busy. I've been traveling... a lot. I have attempted to take my plastic Nub knock off on the road but it is just a huge pain to deal with when trying to trav...
by sirmebane
Mon Sep 09, 2019 8:27 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Least threatening (male) devices to vanilla women
Replies: 7
Views: 408

Re: Least threatening (male) devices to vanilla women

When we started a few years back, I bought a cheap Chinese piece of steel and it was an enclosed cage and honestly a lot of metal between my legs. I knew I would move on but she hated it. This wasn't a good start and I quickly started shopping for something else... more open and lighter. You never k...
by sirmebane
Sun Sep 08, 2019 8:28 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 501
Views: 184282

Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

Wife and I shared a shower this morning which is a rare treat for me. I asked her later in the day if she enjoyed being bathed by me and she said she did. She then asked if I enjoyed it.

I thought it was pretty obvious.

"Well, it's pretty compressed down there so it can be hard to tell."
by sirmebane
Sun Sep 08, 2019 8:24 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Hot things your keyholder has said!
Replies: 501
Views: 184282

Re: Hot things your keyholder has said!

(Mrs Edge has kept me locked and denied since March of 2018. We have settled into a twice a week lovemaking routine, usually a midweek evening, and a weekend morning, with me wearing my strapon. That's when our conversations usually happen). Me: "I've had a few sex dreams lately, in which I'm fucki...
by sirmebane
Sun Sep 08, 2019 6:03 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Metal Detectors
Replies: 16
Views: 5546

Re: Metal Detectors

Now to find a master lock with surgical grade stainless steel. I'm thinking what I bought at Home Depot won't make it through most metal detectors even if my Jailbird would.
by sirmebane
Sun Sep 08, 2019 5:59 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Ideas for Single Man in Chastity?
Replies: 2
Views: 280

Re: Ideas for Single Man in Chastity?

Look up ChastiKey. An app for your phone that can help you with how long you should be locked up. It is 'permissive' even in the most strict settings but it can help you get started with it.
by sirmebane
Sun Sep 08, 2019 5:53 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Dreams
Replies: 17
Views: 999

Re: Dreams

Interesting. I never have sex dreams. Almost never. So infrequently as to be regarded as never. Last night I had a dream about a woman (not my wife) who wanted to have an affair with me BECAUSE I was caged. I was excited and flattered while I tried to work out the details in my mind how I could work...
by sirmebane
Sun Sep 08, 2019 5:42 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Claustrophobic feelings
Replies: 11
Views: 380

Re: Claustrophobic feelings

I can completely understand the feeling of claustrophobia. I had the same sensation but I was further along in our chastity journey (maybe 6 months) when all of the sudden being locked caused me some mild anxiety. Trapped animal sensation; even though I could move around and go anywhere I wanted, th...
by sirmebane
Sun Sep 08, 2019 5:30 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: ... for some value of "vanilla."
Replies: 47
Views: 30061

Re: ... for some value of "vanilla."

I mentioned to my psychiatrist today that I'm now in a chastity device to keep me from 'taking care of myself' instead of focusing on my wife. He said Caging the phallus in long-term couples is "not uncommon." #TheMoreYouKnow Wait? What! Any more details in that conversation? Clinical articles? How...