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by mrrigid
Tue Jun 06, 2023 4:57 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: I broke a record (not the good kind)
Replies: 4
Views: 2806
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Re: I broke a record (not the good kind)

What a thoughtful and personal post - thanks for sharing it! My first thought is you should confess - it would clear the air and might actually be exciting for you. But I don't know how she would react.... My second thought is that penetrating a fleshlight is definitely asking for trouble! Does that...
by mrrigid
Sat Jan 07, 2023 10:53 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Has anyone worn a steel cage to a CVS Pharmacy
Replies: 8
Views: 2539
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Re: Has anyone worn a steel cage to a CVS Pharmacy

I've walked into a bank in Mike's Spikes and had no problem.
by mrrigid
Thu Jul 14, 2022 4:59 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: locked and forgot?
Replies: 19
Views: 31823
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Re: locked and forgot?

I am feeling at times that I just locked myself for self sacrifice and my keyholder is completely disinterested and neglectful. This is a risk for any couple where his regular orgasms are no longer her 'job'. Particularly as the real world has a way of putting item after item at the top of her list...
by mrrigid
Sun Jul 03, 2022 10:27 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: After you are allowed to ejaculate?
Replies: 24
Views: 12755
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Re: After you are allowed to ejaculate?

This week I let J have an orgasm after four weeks in chastity. I noticed he seemed even more attentive and lustful for the next few days. We discussed it and he said anytime he’s gone 2+ weeks, a single orgasm doesn’t reset or “bottom” him out. ... So J actually finds the days right after he cums t...
by mrrigid
Thu Jun 30, 2022 9:12 pm
Forum: Administrivia
Topic: Non-vanilla/kink/fetish
Replies: 116
Views: 908691
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Re: Non-vanilla/kink/fetish

Kink me as well, please!
by mrrigid
Fri Jun 24, 2022 11:17 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Strap-ons. Yes or no? And why?
Replies: 12
Views: 4876
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Re: Strap-ons. Yes or no? And why?

We haven't done this, though it sounds delightfully frustrating! On Tumblr, a significant number of messages we receive involve guys who (without any input from their partners) buy the 10 inch size queen dildo, and then wonder why their wife or girlfriend doesn't want anything to do with it. 🙄 I hav...
by mrrigid
Mon Jun 20, 2022 2:34 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: New Domme Guidance Needed
Replies: 2
Views: 1654
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Re: New Domme Guidance Needed

Husband here, not a domme, but my wife and I both liked "The Hesitant Mistress"

It's short and funny and very vanilla-female-friendly, but it doesn't shy away from the "Does he really want that? -- Yes!" -- type questions.
by mrrigid
Fri Jun 03, 2022 8:57 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Flaccidator silicon band chastity - is this real?
Replies: 6
Views: 4822
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Re: Flaccidator silicon band chastity - is this real?

Not exactly, but they have some interesting stuff - thanks!

There's a 'swimsuit' from Koalaswim called the Meatpacker that has the same band-behind-the-corona feature, but has a metal ring I'd rather avoid.

https://www.koalaswim.com/meat-packer-cock-display-suit
by mrrigid
Thu Jun 02, 2022 9:31 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Flaccidator silicon band chastity - is this real?
Replies: 6
Views: 4822
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Flaccidator silicon band chastity - is this real?

Because actually, this is just the kind of thing I'm looking for - restraint with minimal hardware - doesn't' have to be practical for more than a few hours.

https://rulesandprotocols.bdsmlr.com/post/121006964

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by mrrigid
Tue May 31, 2022 4:49 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Nosaint] Finally locked
Replies: 101
Views: 249080
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Re: [Nosaint] Finally locked

But a rather strange development is I've developed an amazing desire to go outside in nothing but my cage. I have no idea where this came from, but I blame @KittensBoyToy for his wonderful journal and putting the idea in my head. If I ever get to Austin, I might have to drop by and say hello. But I...