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You say: ...Because that would fundamentally be me saying that my being able to masturbate regularly is more important than the gigantic improvements in our relationship... But why does stopping chastity mean you masturbate? Why can't you just decide that the relationship with your wife, and your lo...

Especially at the price of the stuff, try just 1, 2, or 3 sprays. You just want the edge off so you can control yourself, not a complete lack of any feeling (I know, I've made that mistake).

100 days, all on the honor system; no cage. My wife is "threatening" a full year.

I guess when some people lock their cock they need something to make up for it.

Teasing is much better than an orgasm!

I checked directly with Mature Metal on the lock hole. He uses a 9/64" bit which is 3.5719 mm...for the record.

locked4her55, that's the link I needed. Didn't know it existed; thanks.

Thanks for all the feedback. Looks like I'll be upgrading the lock soon!

locked4her55 wrote: http://www.abus.com/eng/Security-at-Hom ... #Technical data

Are you suggesting that is the "exact" diameter for the MM devices? 3.5mm?

So that when it is installed on the cage, it would eliminate any rocking back and forth?

Thanks for link...

I’ve never seen this discussed but it would be helpful to me: what kind of padlock do you use (specifically)? I’ve used the cheap Chinese padlocks that often come with the eBay/DHGate devices as I’ve experimented but they’re obviously cheap and not going to last through daily wear and tear, showers,...

If you're interested in where I ended up: Ring Size I went with 1-3/4" but with a double base ring. I think it's the perfect size for the long term and the double ring makes it much, much more comfortable. Gap I stayed with a 1/2" gap. My balls are always pulled up tight (after my wife get...