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by budgie
Tue May 02, 2017 6:37 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Ghost or mirror orgasm after servicing gf/key holder?
Replies: 22
Views: 13850

Re: Ghost or mirror orgasm after servicing gf/key holder?

Wow great thread, very interesting. Have to say though that my mirror/ghost orgasm is very physical, it is not just emotional As I mentioned "I feel flushed and slightly breathless with a slight tingling sensation in my skin". The flush and tingling can last for several hours. Yes it is qu...
by budgie
Thu Apr 27, 2017 3:18 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Jailbird ring issue... mainly
Replies: 7
Views: 4227

Re: Jailbird ring issue... mainly

I've had a similar problem with a patch of skin on my scrotum, whatever device I used or ring size. I usually end up putting a blister plaster over the sore spot which helps it to heal up and stop the soreness.
by budgie
Thu Apr 27, 2017 3:15 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Ghost or mirror orgasm after servicing gf/key holder?
Replies: 22
Views: 13850

Re: Ghost or mirror orgasm after servicing gf/key holder?

Absolutely yes. My wife does not allow me to penetrate her and I give her orgasms through oral pussy worship. She has very long and strong orgasms that way. I am left locked up the whole time but as she starts orgasming I go soft as if I'd come myself. After I feel flushed and slightly breathless wi...
by budgie
Mon Feb 06, 2017 1:12 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How long do you go without stimulation?
Replies: 7
Views: 6121

Re: How long do you go without stimulation?

I'm in a pretty similar situation. Caged 24/7 and we have sex every week or 2. Sex means giving her pussy worship while caged. I get unlocked about once a month but that makes no difference in the sense my penis is ignored completely while her hands drift around it to other parts. I get to orgasm ab...
by budgie
Wed Jul 20, 2016 5:17 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How often between T&D sessions?
Replies: 16
Views: 6448

Re: How often between T&D sessions?

Also agree absolutely with sirmebane. It's taken me years to stop topping from the bottom. The comment " I have all these ideas and suggestions and at no time has it made our experience better" is spot on for us also. I think our chastity "lifestyle" is now most genuine but also ...
by budgie
Thu Mar 24, 2016 5:58 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How many change cages to do activities
Replies: 11
Views: 4178

Re: How many change cages to do activities

Just got back from a 5 mile run and wore my MM JailBird as usual. Only thing I do differently is to
lubricate a little around the rings directly before to reduce chaffing possibility.
by budgie
Sat Feb 27, 2016 6:43 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Finally figured out length of denial periods
Replies: 8
Views: 5007

Re: Finally figured out length of denial periods

My wife has used this https://www.random.org/calendar-dates/ Agree a number of o's in a certain period and then the random algorithm chooses the dates. You can have two close together and the next months apart: if she doesn't tell you the dates you've no idea after you've had an o how long you'll ha...
by budgie
Sat Jan 23, 2016 3:01 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Vasectomy - what kind of anesthetics did they use?
Replies: 21
Views: 12379

Re: Vasectomy - what kind of anesthetics did they use?

20+ years ago. A local for me too, but they did have to add some more when some feeling returned and I had an "ouch" moment, but nothing serious. Only negative is a few small lumps (granulomas) in my ball-sack, but they are harmless. When I first noticed them I had an ultrasound just to ch...
by budgie
Sat Dec 19, 2015 8:31 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Keyholder doesn't want to orgasm often
Replies: 17
Views: 5113

Re: Keyholder doesn't want to orgasm often

My wife likes an orgasm about once a week too. Fortunately its oral she likes which I love giving her. She went through a spell of wanting to get to the edge but not cum. I could hardly object as we do enough teasing and denial on me! Since male chastity redefined "sex" for us, all forms o...
by budgie
Tue Nov 24, 2015 9:30 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: So whats the longest time you've been in there?
Replies: 33
Views: 13667

Re: So whats the longest time you've been in there?

Longest time locked continuously in a JailBird without any removal at all was 12 weeks. More typical is a couple of months. Hygiene is not a problem as it can easily be thoroughly washed while in place, hair trimming is a pain but can be done with some contortions.