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A few days later while I was at work she simply sent me a smiley face in a text message. Love it.

(skip to the last 3 paragraphs of the post to get what i mean)

Thank you both for your responses and link to devotional sex website. We are currently having the discussion about orgasms - my wife 'owning' my orgasms rather than 'denying' them so that she can see she has control but isn't being cruel. She has said that she enjoys seeing me orgasm and if that is ...

Thanks locked4now - thats an interesting article and not one I'd read before... My wife and I have been 'playing' with chastity for a couple of years. I know this is a chastity forum but would be good to know if there is an article that barely, if at all, mentions chastity cages - I'm trying to find...

Hi I've found a good few blogs and resources through this forum. One I am trying to find is an article or blog post that discusses the fact that male orgasm denial isn't 'cruel' - this is something I am trying to explain to my better half at the moment. She sees it as 'cruel' (her word) if she has a...

My question for you experienced chastity guys is, how do keep this from happening? You don't. Eventually, you'll get used to it and be able to go to sleep in spite of being aroused. You woke her up to ask/tell her to give you a HJ, and she did? I don't think she's quite got the concept yet. I woke ...

Tom - I agree and since my original post we've had a couple of chats... Originally we had a conversation and it was her that suggested that I be locked up to stop the masturbating, and she would only unlock me for an O every time she lost 7lbs. You're right it doesn't work, but at this was the first...

I think its important for women to take control of their own pleasure in this way as many have been told growing up its not something a woman should do. Us men typically will do it anyway yet im sure fewer didn't growing up. Agree with that. My wife rarely does it, but when she does she loves it an...

Appreciate the advice and comments, thank you. And having re-read HandyRandy's suggestion it would work. (I could definitely do with losing some weight myself!) I guess we (probably I) was overthinking it. She had brought up the re-caging in the same conversation as losing weight and stopping mastur...

I understand your comments about where is the motivation for her... I guess if she wanted to she could jump off the diet and put on more weight. Her motivation is that she wants to loose weight. I know its not perfect, but its a scenario where she can lock me up to stop me masturbating, and she can ...

So my first post from a year ago never happened, no game ever worked and over the last year I've been months unlocked.... life has also got in the way. Anyway, it seems weight loss and a masturbation issue have combined to put a challenge back on the table... She is not happy about me masturbating d...