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by LockedUpNewb
Mon Sep 30, 2019 12:23 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How secure can it get ??
Replies: 44
Views: 2039

Re: How secure can it get ??

Qwueepyo wrote:
Sun Sep 29, 2019 4:55 pm
Ball trap devices aren't secure, ever!
They can be, if you get a PA piercing and a cage designed to accommodate the piercing.
by LockedUpNewb
Tue Sep 24, 2019 12:03 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Consent & Sensibility, or Is chastity all in your head?
Replies: 13
Views: 1302

Re: Consent & Sensibility, or Is chastity all in your head?

We don't have a contract and we pretty "loose" by most chastity standards. I did get pierced in Nov 2018 and it does make it impossible to escape or jerk off without destroying the device and/or risking personal injury if removing without a key. I can use a vibrator on the cage and have an orgasm, b...
by LockedUpNewb
Tue Sep 24, 2019 11:43 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Any ideas?
Replies: 10
Views: 818

Re: Any ideas?

We're also wanting to attend a munch or go to a club, but the local stuff is all controlled and run by one guy and he's a creepy f*&^$&@*g A-HOLE.

We could travel to a bigger city 75 miles away, but that adds a lot of expense in gas and hotel rooms.
by LockedUpNewb
Mon Sep 09, 2019 11:41 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: In longer term denial? How has it changed you?
Replies: 13
Views: 1675

Re: In longer term denial? How has it changed you?

It takes between 6--7 weeks before my brain finally accepts that I'm not cumming. At that point, my brain tends to shift more towards total submissiveness. The desire to orgasm subsides quite a bit. Once I reach the 8 or 9 week mark, I tend to NOT want to have an orgasm. This is the stage of denial ...
by LockedUpNewb
Mon Sep 09, 2019 11:19 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: How secure can it get ??
Replies: 44
Views: 2039

Re: How secure can it get ??

No trapped ball device is secure without a piercing. I finally got pierced in Nov 2018. Takes the chastity to a whole new level. Not getting out without power tools, destroying the device, and risk of self injury. Of course, you can always use a vibrator to accomplish an orgasm, so there's some leve...
by LockedUpNewb
Mon May 13, 2019 12:04 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Curious about genital piercings
Replies: 14
Views: 2269

Re: Curious about genital piercings

I am not sure if I would ever get one, even though a PA piercing seems like a sure fire way to make a ball trap device completely secure, but I am curious and would appreciate hearing from members who have ever had a genital piercing regarding any of the following. 1 - How long have you had your pi...
by LockedUpNewb
Wed Aug 27, 2014 7:35 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Anybody mess with pain play?
Replies: 10
Views: 2303

Re: Anybody mess with pain play?

I'm a pain slut. I like the feeling of sub-space. It's wonderful. My wife uses pain as a reward for me. I'm not strong enough to submit to it without being restrained, because well.... it hurts. Usually she spanks my bottom with a riding crop or leather belt. I don't know how long it takes before th...
by LockedUpNewb
Wed Aug 27, 2014 7:12 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: 6 Weeks - First Extended Lockup
Replies: 1
Views: 742

6 Weeks - First Extended Lockup

I've just finished a 6 week lockdown. First time going more than a few weeks. The first 3 weeks were maddening. The last week has been ..... okay. Tonight I'm supposed to get an orgasm and then we talk about if we want to continue or take a break. Funny thing is, I'm really hoping she doesn't let me...
by LockedUpNewb
Wed Jul 16, 2014 8:23 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Ever want to turn the tables?
Replies: 16
Views: 3050

Re: Ever want to turn the tables?

My wife also hates teasing or edging. She said it ruins the experience for her. She likes a very soft, slow tease in the beginning and then slowly worked up into a big fast, towel soaking finale'. I love making her squirt, so over 15yrs I've learned exactly what it takes to push her over the edge. I...
by LockedUpNewb
Sun Jul 13, 2014 12:36 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Ever want to turn the tables?
Replies: 16
Views: 3050

Re: Ever want to turn the tables?

My wife and I switch regularly. We'll go a few months with me in chastity and then she'll decide she's done playing for awhile and we go back to a "normal" sex life. I enjoy those times because sometimes I get to tie her up and make her have forced orgasms. It's a lot of fun.