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by Blaeu
Tue Jun 04, 2013 10:38 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Can you use leather and spandex in a pool?
Replies: 5
Views: 2171

Re: Can you use leather and spandex in a pool?

Thanks for the info.

We will probably not use the gag due to the leather. Just not worth it. We tried the hood last night and after a good rinse and a night to dry, it seems fine.

We will probably use the hood again, so I will post if we see any negative reaction. Not counting on it though.
by Blaeu
Mon Jun 03, 2013 5:13 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Can you use leather and spandex in a pool?
Replies: 5
Views: 2171

Can you use leather and spandex in a pool?

It seems like I've been asking more about products we use along with our CB rather than the CB itself lately. I apologize if that's frowned on, I just haven't found a place with more knowledgeable people. We own a spandex hood as well as a ball gag with a leather strap and buckle to secure it. I'm j...
by Blaeu
Sat May 25, 2013 12:26 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Do you own a gag that you would recommend?
Replies: 11
Views: 5337

Re: Do you own a gag that you would recommend?

Perfect, thanks ptharv. Here's a direct link for anyone curious: http://www.mr-s-leather.com/HT048/fetters-front-buckle-gag.html That gag looks awesome and I'll have to show it to the wife. I really like the way it looks and locks. I never would have thought someone would have to lock a gag, but th...
by Blaeu
Thu May 16, 2013 11:32 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Do you own a gag that you would recommend?
Replies: 11
Views: 5337

Re: Do you own a gag that you would recommend?

Thanks for the info. We really aren't sure which type of gag we want. We keep going back and forth between "fun" looking ones like inflatable, o-ring, or full head style... and comfort. See, I have a tendency to talk a lot, over explain things, and rephrase statements for clarity. My wife ...
by Blaeu
Wed May 15, 2013 1:36 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Do you own a gag that you would recommend?
Replies: 11
Views: 5337

Re: Do you own a gag that you would recommend?

In case people don't have the gag experience I seek, I have a secondary question. When ordering sex toys online, are there any sites you recommend? Are there any sites I should stay away from?
by Blaeu
Tue May 14, 2013 1:58 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Do you own a gag that you would recommend?
Replies: 11
Views: 5337

Do you own a gag that you would recommend?

My wife and I are looking to buy a better gag. We tried a cheap ball gag and a "dildo-gag," and while both were fun, neither really worked that well as a gag. The ball for the ball gag was too big and just had a piece of leather to tie it, and the dildo-gag was more of a novel item than an...
by Blaeu
Fri Apr 19, 2013 10:43 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Advice/Feedback on a toy
Replies: 2
Views: 1778

Advice/Feedback on a toy

I don't think this would work with my cage, but I would try. Primarily, this would be worn when I'm allowed out. An "anal intruder" cock ring. http://www.themaster-series.com/aa325.html I know that wearing it while "free" doesn't really fit into the chastity theme, so please excu...
by Blaeu
Fri Feb 22, 2013 7:23 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Rewards and punishments
Replies: 24
Views: 14907

Re: Rewards and punishments

I have to admit I would find it extremely frustrating to have my wife lock my hands in fist mitts at bedtime and then take my cage off. Maybe I need to re-think this punishment thing. ;) The nature of this punishment conveys the feeling of what I was looking for. We like to walk a fine line between...
by Blaeu
Thu Feb 07, 2013 10:12 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Rewards and punishments
Replies: 24
Views: 14907

Re: Rewards and punishments

Hmm, I'm surprised by the responses I'm getting. First, although I assumed was assumed, everything my wife and I do together is "for fun" and in no way is forced or against the will of an individual. Second, a "reward" could be something such as a long kiss, the type you replay i...
by Blaeu
Wed Feb 06, 2013 10:46 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Rewards and punishments
Replies: 24
Views: 14907

Re: Rewards and punishments

Tom Allen wrote:I don't generally reward or punish my wife; I prefer to talk things over when she gets out of line.
Talking things out huh... I think I'll put that in the punishment section.