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by wishful4
Sat Oct 05, 2019 4:41 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Not sure we can make it work...
Replies: 7
Views: 569

Re: Not sure we can make it work...

Don't give up. I think a lot of men make the same mistake's you made. You are smothering her and making the relationship about your chastity rather than making chastity a part of your relationship. I may be stretching a bit, but your words give me the impression that you feel that you need more inti...
by wishful4
Sat Oct 05, 2019 4:27 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [KittensBoyToy] Hopeful!
Replies: 176
Views: 25778

Re: [KittensBoyToy] Hopeful!

What a devious woman! Sure makes my cage feel somewhat tight! :shock:
by wishful4
Thu Oct 03, 2019 9:39 am
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [mr_faithful] Denied until menopause
Replies: 24
Views: 3006

Re: [mr_faithful] Denied until menopause

I have experienced the same and think it is common for men in long term chastity. After the device has been removed for a few days, your penis will return to its "normal" size. So, don't worry about it. You will be fine but you may need a shorter cage for wearing comfort. Generally, a cage that you ...
by wishful4
Thu Oct 03, 2019 9:27 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Lock failure - BCWYWF!
Replies: 4
Views: 467

Re: Lock failure - BCWYWF!

I haven't had my DHGate A271 in any situation that would encourage corrosion other than showering. I also have an extra locking mechanism in case of a failure, but have not experienced one yet. Don't know how they would hold up to swimming in saltwater. I really like my device, but agree the locking...
by wishful4
Sat Sep 28, 2019 9:05 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: First cage
Replies: 12
Views: 445

Re: First cage

Ok, I may be dating myself, but it amazes me when I see the myriad of available male chastity devices out there on the market today. I made my first device out of a plastic garden hose repair clamp and zip ties. While everyone else would be shopping for home repair needs at Lowe's or the local hardw...
by wishful4
Sat Sep 28, 2019 8:50 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: "Hello world" thread
Replies: 4163
Views: 771951

Re: "Hello world" thread

simply understanding that has given me much more confidence in knowing that I can be the type of Mistress I want to be and I don’t need to worry about following anyone else’s rules. Think your statement is right on! There is no right or wrong way to do this. Sometimes conflict can develop when the ...
by wishful4
Sat Aug 17, 2019 10:40 am
Forum: CF Marketplace
Topic: Mature metal queens keep for sale or trade?
Replies: 2
Views: 334

Re: Mature metal queens keep for sale or trade?

Asking price and pics?
by wishful4
Wed Aug 07, 2019 11:48 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Looking for someone experienced to give pointers
Replies: 10
Views: 922

Re: Looking for someone experienced to give pointers

It's always wonderful to welcome a new Keyholder to the forum. The hardest task for my spouse was to find something in male chastity that turned her on. Also, she had quite a hard time understanding my feelings and I was not a big help for her because I was not very good at explanations. In the begi...
by wishful4
Sun Aug 04, 2019 3:22 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: In longer term denial? How has it changed you?
Replies: 13
Views: 1772

Re: In longer term denial? How has it changed you?

The first month locked is the hardest for me, then it gets progressively easier. Once beyond the first month,my arousal pretty much is on an even keel and I have less of those desperate moments. Early mornings are the most difficult as I'm awakened by the attempt at morning erections fighting with t...
by wishful4
Sat Jul 27, 2019 10:30 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Ladies whose idea it was first...
Replies: 2
Views: 726

Re: Ladies whose idea it was first...

It seems to be the male that introduces it to the females most times. Over the years, we have had several women on this forum that introduced it to their husbands. They were some of our best members of the forum and then, they just disappeared. They have been sorely missed. Women have a unique persp...