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by Sammy
Tue Nov 28, 2023 9:01 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Reducing the cage size, effects on me
Replies: 7
Views: 24205
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Re: Reducing the cage size, effects on me

My husband and I play long-term, and as many of you know, long term play does cause temporary shrinkage. In the series of our play, we have a series of smaller cages that we cycle through, although it interestingly isn’t always a linear progression. While my interest in chastity is purely the contro...
by Sammy
Tue Mar 14, 2023 10:08 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Lock ruining panties
Replies: 9
Views: 19614
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Re: Lock ruining panties

Rubberband around the lock. Or you could try crotchless panties.
by Sammy
Thu Oct 06, 2022 12:17 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: LOctober 2022 🔒
Replies: 18
Views: 12116
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Re: LOctober 2022 🔒

My DH (Dear Husband) has been locked since the beginning of the year. This will be the longest lock-up period in the 8 years since we started playing with chastity, so 'Locktober 2022' is just another month. He surprised me this morning with a handwritten note thanking me for caring enough to lock a...
by Sammy
Tue Jul 19, 2022 7:59 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: After you are allowed to ejaculate?
Replies: 24
Views: 12752
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Re: After you are allowed to ejaculate?

Haven't had that problem -- he does have wet dreams -- aka nature's plumber.
by Sammy
Mon Jul 18, 2022 2:04 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: After you are allowed to ejaculate?
Replies: 24
Views: 12752
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Re: After you are allowed to ejaculate?

This varies so much I don't think it is predictable. I don't think there's a set time, but find what works for you both and then try to improve on that. When we started this journey, 2-3 weeks between orgasms was a long time for DH. Right now... we're 195 days into a 365 day orgasm-free period for D...
by Sammy
Tue Apr 12, 2022 4:23 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [Nikki6] He's locked, and will only be released on my terms.
Replies: 33
Views: 41539
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Re: [Nikki6] He's locked, and will only be released on my terms.

Sounds like you're enjoying this. One thing to consider is that after a long lock-up, he's likely to go off with a feather touch. One way to estalish your control is to anticipate this. Promise him an orgasm, and then when he cums too quickly just say "Sorry hon... deal's a deal" and lock ...
by Sammy
Mon Nov 01, 2021 11:31 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: First Locktober
Replies: 7
Views: 2278
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Re: First Locktober

Yes. Welcome to NO-Vember. Great job Macy.
by Sammy
Tue Aug 24, 2021 9:06 am
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: About ready to purchase a cage
Replies: 9
Views: 1771
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Re: About ready to purchase a cage

Shorter is better -- or so we've come to understand. You might have issue with the head pushing out the end when it tries to get erect, but that head design should also make for less splatter when you pee. We tried the A272 as well as either the A274 or 273-- can't recall exactly. They were great to...
by Sammy
Thu Aug 12, 2021 7:57 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Is it just me, or does everyone else feel like Chastity is comfy?
Replies: 43
Views: 12008
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Re: Is it just me, or does everyone else feel like Chastity is comfy?

My husband gets a little panicky when he's out of his cage for more than a day.
by Sammy
Tue Mar 30, 2021 9:04 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: What nickname does your Keyholder call you?
Replies: 19
Views: 6657
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Re: What nickname does your Keyholder call you?

On this board I refer to my husband as DH (Dear Husband). I also use this as short-hand in text messages, notes to him etc.