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To Lockedforher55: I have no idea how I misattributed the quote to you and I apologize. To Tom: Thank you for paraphrasing me in a way that maybe will help others understand what I was trying to get across and for trying to smooth things over in general. To Twisted Mister: I wasn't trying to proscri...

Would you deprive these people of that amusement by insisting that your way is the [only] 'right' way? If your 'philosophy' and viewpoint is so narrow as to preclude the ability to appreciate what is being offered as a *choice*, that's fine if that's what works for *you* (and your partner), but it ...

I don't claim to represent "the keyholder perspective." That being said, chastity is usually sold to us as being all about our wants and needs and about our taking control. An app that tells me how to tease or punish my partner on any given occasion is the opposite of that philosophy, in m...

I do prefer to have a place where I can let my hair down and speak freely among my fellow keyholders. Meanwhile, I encourage everyone to imagine that all of the KHs are banding together to plot exquisite teases and trade virtuosic sex techniques. The reality (as Tom Allen suggested) is that much of ...

See now, THIS is why your feedback is invaluable! I was thinking like a typical woman and putting my ex in the same category as one my gal pals: if I'm into something cool and think a friend would like it, then I want to share. My original question was about whether there's any chance I'm reading hi...

Reading more about MC and D/s has given me a new lens on the world: This weekend, I went to the movies with an ex bf who has become a dear friend. He let me choose the movie, the time, AND a suburban theater 5 miles from him, even though he lives across the street from a gorgeous downtown 18-screen ...

I agree that the dominance/submission relationship in the bedroom doesn't necessarily have any relation to the power dynamics outside of it. I also agree that chastity doesn't necessarily require general sexual submissiveness, though I would argue that having a keyholder or someone who denies your o...

OK, I requested to join the super-secret keyholders group. Do I need to do anything else to prove that I'm what I say I am? Whom do I have to NOT sleep with to get some service around here? (That was my lame attempt at chastity humor. ;) ) Really, I'm not trying to push or rush anything along, I jus...

Hello, Chastity Nation! I'm a new female keyholder in a relatively young relationship. My story is the typical one-- my boyfriend, after apparently keeping his yearnings secret for years with other partners, came out to me as submissive(ish) and interested in chastity. Although all of my past experi...