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Her: "I want you to go a month without an orgasm"
Me: "I've done that before, a couple of times"
Her: "Awww, that was a long time ago"

After a couple of weeks since we played, had a wonderful tease and denial session last night. She said she wanted me to wait longer. her: how long has it been? me: at least two weeks or so her: no, I doubt that, probably only a week! Hey don't those other bloggers go like 40-50 days between orgasms?...

Hey Tom et al, Wondering if you could add: https://collaredmichaelcom.blog/ to either Keyheld or she-held blog-of-blogs? I like his blog and he has a lot of comment traffic, something I've never had that much of on my own blog. Well, I get some comments from anons...but I really enjoy dialogue! I ca...

In addition to orgasm denial, I also have a very strong fetish for CFNM. One thing that really excites me AFTER a denial session is to help dress her for bed. She wears panties plus PJ top and bottom. So last night, I put everything on her slowly and sensually. Configuring her feminine clothes is no...

We've had some relationship problems that seem to be on their way to being worked out. Basically, communication issues. Had a very up front discussion about it last night, things seem to be moving in the right direction. She asked me if I had masturbated because she didn't feel me hard against her t...

LOL, indeed. The point being that it would take some time if I were to use the emergency key, and it would be fairly easily detectable since it takes some time to re-freeze. I like the idea that it's not immediately available, I guess. And by the way, when she has me locked, I really have no desire ...

Thanks for the feedback. Unfortunately, she's shown little interest for forums and books. I think she thinks it's "topping from the bottom". Bottom line, we played again last night and she was pretty clear she didn't want me to climax. I've learned that once she gets that in her head, she doesn't ch...

My wife asked me recently about masturbation. I told her that the last time I remember masturbating was when we were apart, I did a couple of sessions where I FaceTimed her. That was ~6 months ago or so.

So, yes, I masturbated but she was certainly "in" on it. And seemed to like it.

Glad for you, hope this adds to your enjoyment. I felt an extreme rush when we were both out, I was locked, and she "forgot" the key.

I froze the emergency key in a container that's in our outside fridge. Theoretically, I could get out in an emergency, but it would take some time to thaw.

Looking for advice, comments welcome (please). We are not newbies, but going through some mid-life difficulties. I feel that I inherently crave variety - I'm the kind of person that is upset that there is only three ways to get to work. Likewise, I'm inherently "kinky". We've had some ups and downs ...