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by Petey
Mon Mar 28, 2016 10:05 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Removing solid base ring when hard
Replies: 6
Views: 2829

Re: Removing solid base ring when hard

When I had my MM Jailbird, I also used it as a cock ring during sex. Mid last year I got a Lori 2a and went with a smaller ring and tube. It's great because it doesn't allow any growth and is more secure. (Haven't been able to pull out yet). The disadvantages are that it's harder to clean properly (...
by Petey
Wed Oct 28, 2015 12:41 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Is it true that they never go back?
Replies: 22
Views: 9728

Re: Is it true that they never go back?

I suspect a lot of people that have 'gone back' or stopped playing with chastity are no longer on forums like this. Most of the answers you get will be from people who are still playing and don't see it stopping. I thought my wife was really getting into it after about 2 1/2 years since we started. ...
by Petey
Tue Oct 27, 2015 1:24 pm
Forum: The Journey
Topic: [vinylia] Journal of my chastity life with my wife.
Replies: 14
Views: 10465

Re: [vinylia] Journal of my chastity life with my wife.

Interesting story and progression with your wife. How did the talk go?
by Petey
Thu Sep 24, 2015 9:00 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Ruined Orgasm Vs Aborted Orgasm
Replies: 9
Views: 6017

Re: Ruined Orgasm Vs Aborted Orgasm

I agree, the solicitation is annoying. However, it was actually an interesting topic, and something I've been thinking about. I've often though that a ruined orgasm could be too much pleasure and would be 'cheating' on a true chastity sentence. After a few weeks locked up, a ruined orgasm feels grea...
by Petey
Fri Sep 18, 2015 9:39 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Lubrication
Replies: 11
Views: 3295

Re: Lubrication

I've used Olive oil to give my wife massages for a few years now. I recently started using it with my cage and it seems to work well! I have a Lori 2A so I'm not sure how well it would work with a plastic or silicon device. I used to have a MM Jailbird that was comfortable and never needed lube, but...
by Petey
Wed Jul 01, 2015 7:16 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Talking to the wife
Replies: 30
Views: 9917

Re: Talking to the wife

Good blog Tom. A while back my wife was looking (unsuccessfully) for Christian oriented material to make sure we weren't alone in this lifestyle. I was considering starting a new thread to see if there were more Christian's out there that practice MC. She has no interest in most of the other materia...
by Petey
Mon Jun 29, 2015 1:17 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Talking to the wife
Replies: 30
Views: 9917

Re: Talking to the wife

When my wife and I started out, I found this blog and showed it to my wife. I thought it was quite helpful, and it was one of the few things that I figured was realistic enough to share with my wife without scaring her off. http://gweninlove.blogspot.ca/2012/03/fulfilled-fantasy-male-chastity-device...
by Petey
Tue Nov 19, 2013 11:37 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Reservations
Replies: 14
Views: 3751

Re: Reservations

Wow thanks everyone, some very good advice here. You've put my mind at ease somewhat. Most of you agree that any sign of looking elsewhere would be a sign of deeper desires or issues with the marriage, not as a result of chastity itself. I'm more relaxed now that I see some down to earth comments. I...
by Petey
Mon Nov 18, 2013 6:12 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Reservations
Replies: 14
Views: 3751

Reservations

Hello all, I've been a lurker on this site for quite some time, and I appreciate all the advice, stories, and anecdotes from everyone. I hope to post some more about myself and my journey with my amazing wife soon, but for now I need to get something off my chest. After easing my wife into the idea ...
by Petey
Wed Jan 16, 2013 10:23 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: Inexpensive Devices
Replies: 16
Views: 8710

Re: Inexpensive Devices

Ok I'm a newbie, but having just got a cheap device I thought I'd give my input. I've done my research on chastity and slowly let my wife know my interest. She thought it was weird at first, but deep down i think she like the idea and we agreed that we'd get a cheap device to try. I really don't und...