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Elwood, this doesn't answer your question, but using the usual definition of refractory period that Dev provides, I find mine goes down considerably after a spell of denial. Pre chastity, my refractory period was typically several hours. After a month or more without coming, I am so horny I can be b...

What has worked wonders for me is I now wear a metal cockring all day...not overly tight (2"). It signifies to both of us that it is her cock, and serves as a constant reminder of that fact for me. Dan, I agree with you that a cock ring is an excellent virtual chastity device, and a good compr...

From what I read of Wishful's other posts, he and his wife are communicating, but that she doesn't fully understand or take to his wish to wear a device. He is certainly aware of the need to communicate, and that has been the theme of many of his posts. So that was my starting point in making a sugg...

I think when the honour system works for both partners it shows there is trust in the relationship and that the man has sufficient self control. To me there is something a little bit weak (sorry I don't mean to offend device wearers) about needing a device to avoid temptation. (I know really there a...

I agree with Shane. If your wife is happy to try chastity without a device (the honour system), be grateful for that and go with it for a while. Hopefully during that time she will see some advantages to her of MC. After a few weeks discuss with her how MC is working, whether she is enjoying it and ...

Hi Farmy Don't feel that you must use a device for MC to work. A number of us here are on the honor/honour system, wherby the man just promises not to orgasm (or not to stimulate himself at all) without his partner's specific consent. Since you seem well motivated to keep to your principles at the m...

Hub and I are going to Erotica 2010 an "adult industry" show later this month. http://www.erotica-uk.com/ I went to that same show about 10 years ago and it was where I first saw a practical chastity device. The CB2000 has just come out and there was a stand devoted to promoting and expla...

Sorry to be pedantic, but could "Member's Lounge" be changed to "Members' Lounge" now there are more than one of us!

Thanks, David

Just wondering what the point of a steel cock ring is? To have a reminder, even when he is not in the cage. Sort of like a wedding ring. D I thoroughly commend the idea of a cock ring to remind both parties of the agreement when not locked up. My wife has had me wear one 24/7 for about 6 months now...

I know what the answer to this is going to be, but just being cautious... There is no danger to long term ring/device wear as long as it isnt tight enough to cut off circulation or keep you constantly hard right? There are lots of sites warning you never to wear a cock ring for longer than a few ho...