What's in it for me?

[Relinquish]

Like so many women do now, I keep my property under lock and key... usually for several weeks at a time, often much longer. But if you’re like me, the first time you felt a bit randy after you clicked the lock got you wondering, “What’s in this for me? And what am I supposed to do when I want to be stimulated or satisfied?” From my experience this is an easy question to answer... so let’s take a look at some of the fun ways we can still have our needs met whilst using chastity with our significant other. Then, follow my notes to make things even spicier... pick any level separately, or, even better, make them cumulative as you progress...


Of course you can have him go down on you. Anytime you get that urge to feel his tongue in your slit and on your clit, simply find a comfortable place to lean back; then, spread your legs and gently but firmly push him down to take his rightful place. Close your eyes... relax... and let him do all the work. Intermediate Level: get undressed just enough for him to pleasure you, but he must always strip down to nothing more than that little cage. Get him used to doing this, no questions asked! Advanced Level: you become aroused whilst in your/his office, car or some other semi-private place... it doesn’t matter, you have a need, he has a job to do. Expert Level: have him incorporate your favorite toy into the fun, making him service you orally whilst simultaneously sliding it inside you the way you’re choosing to not use him.


A second option is to ride his face... which is very different than having him go down as the active partner. Instead, push him on his back and straddle his head. Grab ahold and manoeuvre his head as you vigorously use his mouth, chin, nose, whatever, grinding yourself to climax. He’s little more than an inanimate object, to be ridden for your pleasure. Intermediate Level: at least part of the time face towards his feet, gripping his balls and that locked cock whilst you rock. Advanced Level: strap him down, leaving him that way long after you finish with your juices covering his face. Expert Level: invite a friend over, let her find him locked and tied down and invite her to use him for her own pleasure.


Next, you can always masturbate, with fingers, toys, whatever. On your own or right in front of him, and when the latter, make sure he has a good view of you pleasuring yourself. If you use a dildo, let him watch you plunge that faux phallus where that locked cock can’t go. Intermediate Level: the penis cage itself is a delightfully twisted toy for female masturbation! Advanced Level: use a harness to strap your dildo to him for you to ride. Expert Level: have him lick your toys clean once you’ve finished.


For this you must tie him down, then you can use that erect penis to bring you to completion. Whether or not you allow it inside you, whether or not he’s allowed an orgasm, it’s your property and your decision. The only important consideration is whether you’ve been fulfilled. Intermediate Level: slip a plug in his backside for a more compliant man with a firmer cock whilst you’re playing. Advanced Level: once you’re content, ruin one or more of his orgasms. Expert Level: make him beg you to feed him his cum.


Finally you can get yourself a real substitute. With your property properly locked, your man is unable to please you like you deserve. It’s reasonable we may want the real thing... especially during those long proscribed periods of chastity. Have your man help you find and hook up with an alternate... and then he can make the bed, light candles, and play romantic music. The fun part each time is choosing whether to let him watch in the room, listen from you from down the hall, or hear you tell him all about it later! Intermediate Level: Have him buy you new knickers each time you'll be with your boyfriend. Advanced Level: Let him lay in the bed whilst you shag, wrists bound and mouth filled with the (new) knickers you just removed. Expert Level: let your boyfriend remove his condom to finish on your breasts, then make your man lick you clean.


I may have missed some other creative ways you can lock up the penis attached to your significant other without fewer orgasms or less fun for you! Explore and enjoy!

[Schnoff]

Quick mod note: We allowed this post; our Internet-sense tells us the poster is a guy. By the content, and by the fact that a throwaway (lasts one hour) email address was used. Not sure yet whether to move into Fiction, we may. Input welcome.

[Lockedchef]

Quick mod note: We allowed this post; our Internet-sense tells us the poster is a guy. By the content, and by the fact that a throwaway (lasts one hour) email address was used. Not sure yet whether to move into Fiction, we may. Input welcome.

The whole thing reads like an abbreviated key holders book not really geared towards regular people.. The expert stuff is such on the extreme end of the chastity spectrum you only find it in porn.

[focUSed]

Fiction, for sure. All of the fantasy, not much of the reality.

[KittensBoyToy]

I almost PM'd the mods when I read this. It's in the right place now.