My keyholder/wife said something to me the other day that I thought was unexpected. Usually we all think that Chastity Devices can be used to prevent infidelity.... However, she asked me "when you are locked up, you are much more attentive to my needs. Does that make you the same way with other women at your work?" She was a little worried that the CD could actually be causing issues.
Has anyone else's keyholder ever said anything similar or had similar worries? I just explained that it only makes me more attentive to the holder of the key. But, I wonder what others thoughts on this would be.
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Strange things your keyholder has said?
Strange things your keyholder has said?
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Re: Strange things your keyholder has said?
Wow. First I've heard of this.
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Re: Strange things your keyholder has said?
I certainly don't get more attentive to other woman. Makes me hyper focused on my wife
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Re: Strange things your keyholder has said?
I had an interesting dream last night that relates to her fears. I was in an apartment in NYC with a sexy woman who was hot for me. Part of me wanted to stay but I tore myself away. When I got to the exterior door some people came in from the outside covered with ice. They said it was sticking to everything. The perfect excuse to go back to Ms. Sexy. But I didn't. I went out and found that there wasn't any ice or snow at all. So home I went to my lovely wife.
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Re: Strange things your keyholder has said?
Last weekend I got a rather unexpected "you make me feel bad." I let her know that I was okay with being let out of the cage for some fun.
It wasn't the first time nor will it be the last but this time she reacted very emotionally.
It wasn't the first time nor will it be the last but this time she reacted very emotionally.
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Re: Strange things your keyholder has said?
Interesting thought.
I am totally focused on my wife's needs, and not just sexually.
Makes me wonder for those who have a friend hold their key. Do they become focused on them in hopes for release or is it like dropping your key off in a safety deposit box at the bank?
I am totally focused on my wife's needs, and not just sexually.
Makes me wonder for those who have a friend hold their key. Do they become focused on them in hopes for release or is it like dropping your key off in a safety deposit box at the bank?
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Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress,
DHgate A271 & 273, DHgate Full Stainless Steel Belt & DHgate HT nub
Currently wearing A273
Re: Strange things your keyholder has said?
Yes. My (our) experience too.Lockedchef wrote:I certainly don't get more attentive to other woman. Makes me hyper focused on my wife
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Re: Strange things your keyholder has said?
Thanks everyone. Being focused on her is my experience as well. Her statement really caught me by surprise. But, she is a new keyholder. And, I certainly didnt want to discount her concerns. But, make sure i try to understand them and communicate. So, it is nice to see others feel the same as I do.
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This is just my experience, yours can.... and probably will.... vary!
Currently Wearing:Steelheart.
Owns: CB3000, CB6000, Steelheart II, Steelheart, various home-built models.
This is just my experience, yours can.... and probably will.... vary!
Currently Wearing:Steelheart.
Owns: CB3000, CB6000, Steelheart II, Steelheart, various home-built models.