"Hello world" thread

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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby 14005 » Wed Aug 02, 2017 12:57 pm

Hello, first post on this forum.

I've been looking into / considering chastity for something like a year and a half, haven't really kept track. I likely have different goals than many of the members. So I'd like to ask a few questions, and to start a blog on the "journey" forum soon.

I'll throw out my main goal here and post other questions later. Basically I want to stop masturbating. Sounds so incredibly weird to be posting this in an online forum, but I think I came to the right place, a male chastity forum! So anyway my wife and I have sex very predictably once a week on the weekend. Trouble is I can't keep from jacking off after that usually something like M, T, W, maybe R, and then wait for the weekend; I hate it, I want all my orgasms to be with my wife. I self-tried a cheap chinese device maybe 6 or 8 months ago. I discovered that it was way to easy to escape. Then tried a vice (similar to a CB but with a vice feature that is supposed to prevent pullout). That was pretty easy to escape too. Very recently I went to tetherproducts.com and paired that with the vice. So far completely inescapable; awesome - very important considering my goals (I would cheat if I could). Right now I'm self testing, mainly for fit and wearability. Not sure on that part yet, we'll see how it goes, I have a full day with the wife gone to see if the soreness subsides or increases. Sometime in the next few days or weeks (if this device works out) I will approach my wife about chastity. Or I may abandon the idea of chastity entirely; I just don't know right now.

Anyway, this is my "hello" post for the mods to review and add me as a member. If anyone has any reactions that's great. If not I can repost into a more appropriate forum later along with some other questions. Initial take on this site is great - I like the seriousness / reality of it as I'm really considering this. Thanks in advance.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby Tom Allen » Wed Aug 02, 2017 4:06 pm

Hey 14+

Just one more suggestion: I don't know if this would be of interest to you, but there are several support groups for over-wanking. One of them is the Reddit NoFap group: http://reddit.com/r/nofap

Just a suggestion.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby jmac32here » Sat Aug 12, 2017 2:29 am

God, I feel like such a noob now.

Well, hello forums. I may the the quiet lil kitten in the corner - writing code - cuz well, it's been a past time of mine since I was little.

So yea, other than being a little nerdy furry "kitty" that just so happens to enjoy working on a few websites here and there... I am a gentleman in the low 30's.

I found this place after deciding to to a "long term with provisions" chastity setup on one of my own sites, and felt I could poke my head in and take a look around at least.

So yes, I do long term chastity, let others be my key holder remotely, and felt I could get along with others into chastity.

So, hi there...
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby onwed_cuck_at » Sun Aug 13, 2017 6:41 pm


I am Martin from Vienna.
I am thinking about chastity devices about 2 years.
I've started with a CB, then a Birdlocked, then a holytrainer2.

Now I am looking for a custom fit model - happy for any suggestuions....

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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby Cboi » Thu Aug 24, 2017 7:51 am

Hi everyone. I'm Sam from Belgium. I've had submissive feelings from even before I became sexually active. In my early relationship I asked my girlfriends to facecit, take control in the bed,...

Since I've discovered chastity cages, I see how they can take control outside the bed also, which excites me a lot. I've been a long time lurker, but I decided to register so I can participate.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby likeitlocked » Mon Aug 28, 2017 1:00 am

Hi everyone. I am a European in my late fities with a very vanilla wife. After much surfing on tumblr sites and getting ever more excited about wearing a chastity cage I bought one a few weeks ago. Last week with a bouncing heart I introduced it to my wife. And now the journey has started.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby cuyahoga » Mon Aug 28, 2017 7:31 am

Likeitlocked - welcome to the forums.
I, for one (and I bet I'm not alone), would love to hear how you presented it, and how it was received.
But of course, only share what you're comfortable with...
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby EFKnight » Wed Aug 30, 2017 8:00 pm

Well read, but little first person experience with this.
Also single right now, which will limit the experience, until I find the right keyholder.
CB6000s owner, interested in DreamLover 2000 and FLR lifestyle.
I may lurk for a bit, but I'll pop in with questions and comments.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby tourist1300 » Thu Aug 31, 2017 4:04 am

Amir here. From Iraq. tested chastity a few times, have a couple of devices but my current partner does not know about this fetish YET. going to tell her in a couple of weeks... to see if we click
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby locked4her55 » Fri Sep 01, 2017 9:37 am

Welcome EFKnight & tourist1300 to the Forums and introducing yourself.
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