Shortening the post orgasm slump

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My wife likes me to be frustrated both because I'm happier and because she likes the benefits for her in terms of extra attention, shorter negotiations about everything, etc. The problem is that her favorite thing to do in bed is PIV where I come inside her. In fact me coming is her favorite part, so can't be skipped even if I developed the self control I'd need, which is a big "if". Right now, she's not getting as much of that as she'd like. She's made it very clear that another man is off the table, which is also fine by me.

Do any of you have any ideas or tricks for getting from the post orgasm "bleh" to buzzing with frustration again as quickly as possible?

[Tom Allen]

Gosh, I miss 1050 Words.

We found that putting me *right back* into the cage after orgasm - like, within minutes, not hours - would help to reset the feeling. I think it's because I'm being forced to do something I don't want to do, which perversely has that "Gosh, that was hot" vibe to it when thinking about it later.

I have a story, based on some true-life events, that helps to illustrate this:

https://vanillaedge.wordpress.com/2010/ ... d-of-time/

[cycling2work]

Amazing writing Tom.
For me, when I am allowed to lick my wife without being unlocked makes me horny as hell. Delicately shortens the slump.

[Caged55]

Gosh, I miss 1050 Words.

We found that putting me *right back* into the cage after orgasm - like, within minutes, not hours

https://vanillaedge.wordpress.com/2010/ ... d-of-time/

Ditto... I'm uncaged but the base ring of my JB stays on, Madam KH used to lock me back up literally immeadiately as I begin to go soft, then orders me to clean her - she misses that since I'm on a orgasm free year, but it worked for us

[Veganpunk]

Just don't have any orgasms! Kidding, kidding, I've found that quasi teasing myself shortly after always helps me. Generally if I have one, she does too, and when she gets hers, she is good for a few days, so that kinda magnifies the slump.

I've taken to plugging myself for a few hours the day after, looking at Tumbler and the like, will usually pull up up pretty quickly. I also agree, the sooner you lock back up after an orgasm, the better.

[TwistedMister]

I have to agree, being required to go 'right back in' does it for me.

It's one thing to be doing something...unusual...when you are horny and your inhibitions are lessened, and another thing to be required/forced to do something after you've just got your rocks off and aren't really 'feeling it' (at the moment). I think it increases the sense of 'being controlled' and pushes a mental 'button' that short-circuits the normal process.

[TwistedMister]

Just don't have any orgasms! Kidding, kidding, I've found that quasi teasing myself shortly after always helps me. Generally if I have one, she does too, and when she gets hers, she is good for a few days...

Not Mrs. Twisted. When she gets started, she wants even more the next day.

[Aarkey]

For me, if the denial has gone on for more than a couple of days then going "right back in" is actually pretty uncomfortable. If I'm allowed free long enough to have a second orgasm then my body feels relaxed enough that going back in works well for me. My ex would call it "clearing the pipes" out - as my ejaculate tends to coagulate quite a bit after more than 5 or so days (with or without a device.) So a second release really helps.

[subbieforHer]

One thing that has been pretty successful is having to wear a butt plug whenever I am allowed to have an orgasm and am required to stay plugged until my CB is locked back on. Mistress Jenna has me wear a locking butt plug harness to secure it in place. I am allowed to take as long as I "need" before being re-locked, although there is an obvious limit as to how long before it needs to come out. Definitely works for me!

Good Luck!