Pain in chastity

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MoonWalker
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Pain in chastity

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Hi,

Thanks to me being rather foolish (I went out with someone other than my actual girlfriend Helga), I have agreed to wear a chastity belt as she told me this was the only way she would really trust me again :( .

So off we went and we bought a Steelheart 2 ( http://steelworxx.de/Steelheart-2-29p.html ).
Now at the moment, I'm only able to wear this chastitybelt for a few hours as I'm getting huge pains at the bottom of the ring around my scrotum.
Is this normal? Anything I can do about this or will this go over if I wear the chastity belt more?
Helga gave me until valentines, after that, she requests that I wear this chastity belt at all times, so any help or tips would be usefull :).

Thanks.
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Atone
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Re: Pain in chastity

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Welcome to the forum.

Sounds like not enough gap at the bottom. Not sure how you adjust that on a steelheart.

Good luck with your relationship problems, I hope it works out.

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Re: Pain in chastity

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What kind of pain? Internal or external like rubbing?
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Re: Pain in chastity

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Hi,

I don't have any internal pains and overal, the device is pretty confortable to wear (while I have to admit it feels kinda strange but I suppose that is quite normal). So it looks more like rubbing.

As for the relation issues, I think we are doing pretty well again :) . It's was +- 2 months ago and we had quite a lot of time discussing & working on our issues and if this chastity belt gives Helga the extra confidence/trust in our relationship, I think it's worth it.
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If you're using lube, try it wearing it without the lube. If you're just sitting around, you should be able to tolerate the device without any lube. This will eliminate the lube as the problem. Also try pulling the A-ring as tight as possible against your body -- this should improve comfort considerably. For me anyway, the "burn" is normal after I put the Steelheart on. I don't always get the burn, but if I do, it always passes within two or three hours. (And it's not a "little" burn either; it can feel pretty awful before it passes. I have to fight to not just ask for the keys.)

There's no way to adjust the SH, unless you happen to have a larger ring. If it's a "burn" you might just need to persevere -- until you can't. If it's something deeper or internal, I'd be very cautious. In general, you should not ignore any pain coming from the device.
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Definitely sounds like not enough gap.
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