"Hello world" thread

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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby curiouscaged » Wed Nov 29, 2017 9:30 pm

Hey, everybody. I introduced myself elsewhere, but figured I’d do it here, too. I’m very new to the world of male chastity and my wife and I are still figuring it out. At this point, it’s hard to say if it will be a lasting element of our sex life, but I really hope it is. I really enjoy it.
Anyway, feel free to reach out. I’d love to get advice from other married folks. Thanks.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby Steve2059 » Sun Dec 03, 2017 6:24 am

Hi there, posting to show I'm a real person but also to say a bit about myself.

Up until six months ago I had kinks that were rarely allowed out or kept totally private. I've always wanted to be submissive sexually but my wife never showed interest in taking the lead.Earlier this year I discovered the world of denial/tease/chastity and immediately knew this is what I wanted.

At first, I kept things to myself, using web and edging sites, until I found the courage to share the whole thing with my wife - who was frankly unimpressed. I talked her into giving domination a try and that was a disaster - it's not who she is and she was deeply unhappy to have this pressure put on her.

Going back to the drawing board I devised ways of achieving my aims without pressuring her, which basically involved keeping her apprised of what I was doing but without pressuring her to participate. My first challenge was to throw dice to see which of a series of dates would be my next orgasm - and got a two-month session (second longest option). I assured my OH that her pleasures would not be curtailed, and brought up the issue of household chores, which I wanted to incorporate.

She was OK with the denial though she didn't really understand it, but took to the chores part enthusiastically. I now do my own ironing, vacuum the house, keep myself "manscaped" and keep the kitchen tidy, all in enforced nudity. I love it and so does she.

Her one caveat is that she didn't want me in a cage. But a couple of weeks later she thought a cage might be ok for nights to keep my hands off myself, while the honour system would prevail during the day. In the last month though she's taken to the whole thing as she realises it's a long-term thing for me not just a fad, and she gets a load of housework done. She also really likes that we cuddle loads more without me wanting to progress to sex all the time, so I am apparently a lot more romantic now.

I write this in a short metal cage on day 3 of a week's lockup, but also on day 39 of a 67 day period of orgasm denial. I'm in heaven.

Great to come across this forum, to find that I'm not by any means alone.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby locked4her55 » Mon Dec 04, 2017 8:56 am

Steve2059 wrote: she's taken to the whole thing as she realises it's a long-term thing for me not just a fad, and she gets a load of housework done

:lol: Join the club . . . . and welcome to the CF

nice intro BTW
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby Frank Stain » Mon Dec 04, 2017 12:39 pm

Hello. Just wanted to introduce myself. I have been married to H, my wife, for 17 years. We recently made a joint commitment to develop an FLR. It was at my prompting and pleading. I have an interesting situation. I'm happy to say she is naturally bossy, and loves having control in the marriage. But it's taken my a long time to get to the place where I can accept that. On the other hand, she has never been bossy in the bedroom. But this is already starting to change, and I'm excited for what our journey together will look like. I'd like to use this forum for community, help and advice along the way.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby PatMcGroin » Wed Dec 13, 2017 2:20 pm

Well I guess I need to introduce myself if i’m Going to be active. After 26years of vanilla marriage I lived my vows to completion. I decided to explore things I had always wanted. I experimented with chastity and keyholder sites and joined the local kink community. I met a woman who later became interested in enforced chastity. We have ‘played" on and off for the last year. She currently has the key to my HT2 with no indication of a release date. We will see where this goes.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby Locked by LRC » Thu Dec 14, 2017 12:23 am

Welcome to the forum. By the way, I doubt anybody here will PatYourGroin ;)
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby Atsta » Thu Dec 14, 2017 4:44 pm

well "Hello world"

newbie just registered

Have this site book marked and visit it daily to see if there is anything new, but decided to register and possibly contribute

Location : Johannesburg
Sex : Male (not interested in other males)
Orientation: Asexual-fetishist
Marital: unmarried, no children, living toegether with a mentally handicapped lady (father figure/protector)
Chastity device: Neosteel Hip total, purchased 11 years ago
Occupation: early retired ex airline pilot (medical)
age: 55

currently 10 kg heavier, and the damm belt just doesnt close anymore, and if I use enough force to finally get the waist band to close, it is so painfull, that I cant wear it for more than about 15 minutes.

let me see what there is on this forum, and where I will be able to add value in the future
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby Chaste J1 » Fri Dec 15, 2017 5:01 pm

Hello everyone just signed up. Looking forward to posting on the forum. I have been in chastity a little over 4 years with Mrs Chaste holding the keys. Love every minute of it. Things had got a bit boring on the bedroom front but chastity (for me!) Has changed that beyond belief! Wish we'd discovered it sooner.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby Miss Ds Cage Boy » Fri Dec 15, 2017 8:33 pm

Hello All - new to chastity with my lovely wife (Miss D) as my keyholder. I've been locked pretty much straight for 2 weeks in a metal cage from House of Denial (pretty sure just a Chinese knock off). Seems I'm very lucky compared to many as my cage fits seemingly perfectly. Looking forward to learning and sharing.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby locked4her55 » Sat Dec 16, 2017 10:15 am

Welcome to the Chastity Forums Atsta, Chaste J1 and Miss Ds Cage Boy.

As I'm sure you lurkers can attest, we're a friendly bunch just living day to day being a little restricted. ;)
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