"Hello world" thread

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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby Barkis » Thu Nov 16, 2017 7:27 am

Hello All,
Been lurking for a while and finally decided to sign up as you seem such a nice bunch of folks.

Mrs Barkis and I are both late 60's (yeah, that old!), living in the UK, and very happily married for over 40 years. We're both pretty vanilla, and until about 9 months ago, I had never heard of male chastity. Then a chance event stirred up some sediment from the murky depths of my psyche and, basically, changed my life.

Happily, my wife has responded very positively to my new-found kink and we're having a hell of a time exploring the world of chastity. Haven't yet found a device that I can comfortably wear long-term, but I've now got a custom cage on order, hoping it will arrive for Christmas!
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby Tom Allen » Thu Nov 16, 2017 12:26 pm

Then a chance event stirred up some sediment from the murky depths of my psyche and, basically, changed my life.


Wow, can't wait to hear about this one. :mrgreen:
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby Barkis » Fri Nov 17, 2017 3:04 pm

Wow, can't wait to hear about this one.


Oh dear, I hope I didn't make the nature of my epiphany seem more interesting than it is! It was all fairly mundane really; the biggest deal for me has been getting my own head round how something like this could pop out of my subconscious without warning.
When I have some time, I might post some more detail about how it all began...
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby samischaste » Thu Nov 23, 2017 11:43 am

I have just bought a CB6000 and started wearing it a couple of days ago. I have joined the forum so that I can get helpful answers to my probably rather stupid questions. :oops:
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Washing routine while wearing

Postby samischaste » Thu Nov 23, 2017 1:26 pm

:roll: Not sure where to post this question but as this forum seems to be for general chastity chat I would appreciate advice on personal hygiene while locked in. I plan to remove it once week for a thorough cleaning (of me and the device) but not sure what I should be doing on a daily basis. Elsewhere I have read about using a fine nozzle squeezy wash bottle. Is that a good idea and can anyone send me a link to such a bottle? Any other washing suggestions gladly received :?
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby thechastenedhusband » Fri Nov 24, 2017 12:43 pm

I'm not a spammy scum! :lol:

I'm a 42yo UK male, been exploring chastity with a (very) vanilla wife, she's been taking her time getting in to the 'role'. It's been a mixed road so far, I was guilty of topping from the bottom, now she's very much making sure I stay bottom! We've been into keeping me chaste for the last couple of years now.

Although I'm not locked up at the moment, I am chaste by honour. I recently got a prince albert which is healing pretty well, almost ready to start stretching. I've had difficulty with balltrap cages causing my skin to tear in one particular painful spot - this has been the main reason we've had to stop. I'm aiming to get something like the Steelworxx Jacket 2 which is an interesting take on a ringless design, and one many people with PA piercings seem to swear by.

I'm sure I'll have plenty of questions about this and similar designs.
Currently unlocked, with honour to my wife who has not set any time or duration.
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Re: Washing routine while wearing

Postby TwistedMister » Sat Nov 25, 2017 10:33 am

samischaste wrote::roll: Not sure where to post this question but as this forum seems to be for general chastity chat I would appreciate advice on personal hygiene while locked in. I plan to remove it once week for a thorough cleaning (of me and the device) but not sure what I should be doing on a daily basis. Elsewhere I have read about using a fine nozzle squeezy wash bottle. Is that a good idea and can anyone send me a link to such a bottle? Any other washing suggestions gladly received :?


It should be in a different thread, but...

I have the CB-3000 and have found that removal is not strictly necessary. A daily shower using liquid soap squirted into the cage and swished around with a finger poked in through the ring works quite well, followed up with a good spray from a hand-held showerhead that has multiple spray options which includes a high-pressure stream. Using this method I can go for months (really, indefinitely) without removal and still be hygienic and odor free.

There are several caveats to this method: you must be completely unaroused to start off (obviously?) in order to get a finger inside; if you become aroused during the process you must return to the flaccid state in order to rinse; you should avoid spraying the high-pressure stream directly into the urethra unless you *want* to get your bladder filled from the outside...which is not necessarily recommended, especially if you have your water heater turned to a low setting (in an effort to conserve energy) which is below 136*F...a setting under 136 may allow bacteria to grow inside the water heater tank and you DO NOT want to be introducing foreign bacteria to your bladder/urethra,which could possibly result in a urinary-tract infection. A UTI is most definitely not a fun experience, and can even be deadly (in extreme cases) if left untreated.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby Mashrubb » Sun Nov 26, 2017 2:04 am

Hello world. Glad to join this forum. This site is very informative for the chastity so I thought I should register. I look forward to posting my first threads here.
Till next time

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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby Joroincharge » Sun Nov 26, 2017 4:52 pm

Tullygirl wrote:Hi there. I am a soon to be keyholder for my husband who has expressed interest in male chastity. I am not as sure about it, but willing to go along and see how things work out. I would be interested in the keyholders forum.

You'll enjoy it!!
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby jfenoffti » Mon Nov 27, 2017 11:26 am

Barkis wrote:
Wow, can't wait to hear about this one.


When I have some time, I might post some more detail about how it all began...


A perfect place to start a "Journey" blog! -- anxiously awaiting your story...
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