"Hello world" thread

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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby madamsboy » Tue Feb 06, 2018 10:51 am

just signed up here because I am looking to sell my Jaibird. I've been in the chastity lifestyle for about 8 years or so. Just changing devices to one that I can hopefully wear longer term. I'm a member of other related sites as well, same username if you want to look me up.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby Nevermore » Mon Feb 12, 2018 5:42 am

Hello world

I'm here to say hello and introduce myself. I've worn a chastity device before and love the love-hate relationship of it. I'm here to get the perspective of otherwise vanilla couples who've introduced devices into their sex lives. Looking forward to being cleared and joining the conversation.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby garysmall » Fri Feb 16, 2018 7:34 am

Hello, we started on Valentine Day!
I have had the desire to experiment with chastity for a long time, going back a few years, but I have not had the nerve to introduce my wife to the idea. Well yesterday, I did. Big time.

We had a romantic dinner at home and I tried very hard to please. Flowers, candles etc. Then we settled to watch a movie together and before it started, I gave her some presents. Sexy presents for Valentine's Day. A toy and some lingerie - a lace wrap and a babydoll nightwear. She loved them!. Phew...hurdle one. She really loved them. I have purchased lingerie for her before with mixed success, but this time, brilliant.

Then i gave her a present, wrapped, to give to me. It was a CB-6000s in its box. I had taken out the keys and wrapped them separately. I explained the box was for me, and the small package(with keys) was for her.

When she opened them- we opened the box together, I said that it was a present that could be experimented with another day, or not at all if she wished. If unopened, I could return it under the returns policy. I stepped back as much as I could, but I did explain that it was a concept that excited me, and perhaps could spice up our sex life together. She loved it and ripped the box open immediately. I was a little taken aback at her enthusiasm to be honest.

Anyway, we had a very honest conversation. We'd only drunk a little wine. She joked and said she would make me wear it when going out to meet other women(professionally). I explained I would never have an affair (Which she already knows). I then honestly explained it may be good to have her manage my masturbation. I did not deny masturbation. (I may have understated it a bit! :) ).

Without further chat, she wanted it on me. I said maybe we should wait until tomorrow (15th). She was having none of that and we fiddled with the various rings and spacers - all the while, there was me getting excited. Eventually and with appropriate lube, it was fitted on, and she quickly locked the padlock.

They always say: Be careful what you wish for...

That was it. I was in it all night. We had a very romantic, touchy, evening and loving time. I gently massaged her and spent time pleasing her before we then went to bed. She was tired and wanted no more, so she left it on me, keys on the table beside her side of the bed.

I slept fitfully, but quite comfortable actually. I was excited, tense, but loving it.

In the morning, I brought her tea in bed, and was loving towards her. We did not need to rush off to work. We had some lovely time, then she took it off me. We made love and it was the best for weeks.

My wife has instantly become a natural. She said I should leave it off for a couple of days, and she will put it back on me on Friday evening or Saturday, and we'll be trying it for longer. OMG. What have I unleashed?


Sorry if I've rambled on. I can promise you all the above is absolutely true. I live in anticipation of being locked again and can honestly say we've entered a very exciting phase of our marriage. At least I hope so.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby TwistedMister » Sat Feb 17, 2018 6:52 am

garysmall wrote:Hello, we started on Valentine Day!
I have had the desire to experiment with chastity for a long time, going back a few years, but I have not had the nerve to introduce my wife to the idea. Well yesterday, I did. Big time...Without further chat, she wanted it on me. I said maybe we should wait until tomorrow (15th). She was having none of that and we fiddled with the various rings and spacers - all the while, there was me getting excited. Eventually and with appropriate lube, it was fitted on, and she quickly locked the padlock.

They always say: Be careful what you wish for...

That was it. I was in it all night. We had a very romantic, touchy, evening and loving time. I gently massaged her and spent time pleasing her before we then went to bed. She was tired and wanted no more, so she left it on me, keys on the table beside her side of the bed.

I slept fitfully, but quite comfortable actually. I was excited, tense, but loving it.

In the morning, I brought her tea in bed, and was loving towards her. We did not need to rush off to work. We had some lovely time, then she took it off me. We made love and it was the best for weeks.

My wife has instantly become a natural. She said I should leave it off for a couple of days, and she will put it back on me on Friday evening or Saturday, and we'll be trying it for longer. OMG. What have I unleashed?


Welcome to the club.

It sounds like you have gotten off to one of the best starts possible. You could be in for quite a ride.

Do you see yourself as voluntarily giving up control? Or do you prefer that she take the lead and insist on it?
02/11/18 "The idea of me fucking someone else really turns you on, doesn't it?" --Mrs. Twisted
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby garysmall » Sat Feb 17, 2018 1:12 pm

Thanks TwistedMister,
I very much prefer that she takes the lead and insists on it. I am hoping the great start doesn't fizzle and burn too soon. I will tread carefully. Thanks for the encouragement - I'll take this into a separate thread when I next have an update(one coming soon for sure).
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby DeltaGeorge » Wed Feb 21, 2018 10:29 am

Welcome, Gary,
It's nice to see another newbie around here. I'm just a couple month ahead of you in this adventure. Kudos to you for your Valentines day introduction. Well done.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby Kylara » Thu Feb 22, 2018 10:02 am

Hello all.

I am a 49y male from Belgium married with a wife for 30 years.
I have recently completely changed my life with the female domination and chastity thing.
Still learning and searching my way in that world that I like.

Will be please to read all your stories and advice.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby locked4her55 » Fri Feb 23, 2018 7:47 am

Welcome Kylara to the Forums and thanks for the introduction.
Happily secured since 4/2010 :-)
Have worn CB3000, CB6000s, MM Jail Bird & Watchful Mistress
Currently wearing DHgate 304
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby SevereCircle » Sat Feb 24, 2018 7:35 pm

Hello, world! I'm a dude in my late 20s and I've just started exploring all this, for all the usual reasons, and one (seemingly) unusual reason: I tend to have a low libido (I'm horny enough to masturbate about once a month), so I'm hoping using a chastity device will help with that. At the very least, making it inconvenient to unlock myself should keep my mind in the gutter more. I ordered a holy trainer v2 the other day. I'm excited for its arrival.

I like my women like I like my coffee: I like tea.

I'm also a big anime nerd, my neck aches when I don't sleep enough, and my first bike was yellow.

If that doesn't pass a Turing test I don't know what does.
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Re: "Hello world" thread

Postby TwistedMister » Sun Feb 25, 2018 7:55 am

SevereCircle wrote:If that doesn't pass a Turing test I don't know what does.


Nothing so simple as merely a Turing test. :mrgreen:

Welcome to the board.
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