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I have access to the key to my device, as does my wife who wears her key around her neck. On Tuesday morning, after showering, I didn't put my cage back on. This is something that my wife and I had discussed previously. Actually, she had encouraged me to try not wearing it for a while.

She didn't notice my not wearing it yesterday. This morning, ten minutes before I had to leave, I told her that I wasn't wearing the cage.

She reached around, fondled, squeezed and stroked me. This led to a lovely episode of my bringing her to a climax and her playing with my dick. After her climax I had a realization: The cage keeps her from playing with my penis. Yes, she had a key but she doesn't have a magic want to make the cage not be there instantly. Taking it off is a bit of a process. I hadn't been seeing the cage as pushing her away but, now that I think about it, it does keep her from touching it as much as it keeps me from touching it.

To be complete, she doesn't usually just start playing with my penis out of the blue. But the realization that the chastity cage blocks her from doing that is food for thought.

Interesting, my wife also shys away from playing with my cage when I’m locked. When I’m free and she feels like making love, she goes right to my cock almost immediately. I love having her fondle me thru the cage but she rarely does. Maybe I need to convey to her just how great it feels. Of course it depends on what cage I’m wearing also as to how much pleasure I get from her touch.

Complete opposite for me. My wife's hands will be down there MORE often when I'm caged. I have really big balls and she loves cupping my entire package including the cage and just gently squeezing them like a stress ball when we are on the couch watching TV. The cage keeps it all bundled up in a nice package for her to grab

The same for me. In fact I use the honour method, since few years.
I am used not to wear the cage, unless I really cannot fall asleep, which now is quite rare. In any case I do not use a lock, it is just a mechanical thing to prevent rubbing on the bed.

My wife isn't fond of touching the cage and has told me so. I'm not sure what she doesn't like about it and she cannot really explain it.

Once the cage is off, she is back to 'hands on.'

Shoeslave88 wrote:Complete opposite for me. My wife's hands will be down there MORE often when I'm caged. I have really big balls and she loves cupping my entire package including the cage and just gently squeezing them like a stress ball when we are on the couch watching TV. The cage keeps it all bundled up in a nice package for her to grab

Same here, in fact, when the 'Game' is on one of the requirements is that my (her) caged cock and balls are out and easily accessible to her whenever I am in the house (it's generally not warm enough for me to go completely naked). She likes to touch, grab, twist and pull, and sometimes do a bit of licking through the small openings to watch me swell and strain.