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That’s amazing, TM!

Woo Hoo! Happy for you!

sherulestherooster wrote:

TwistedMister wrote:There are at least two members here who have gone down the hotwife/cuckold path.

*Raises hand*

I would be one of those members. Happy to entertain any questions about such experiences. Bottom line is that we were surprised how much it boosted her self esteem, except when she got flaked on. For me, the reality was more intense than the fantasy and I never had any feelings of jealousy (although, sometimes some "angst" more about whether she was safe). She always played without me, so fits the title of this thread =S

New to the forum. Have lived the cuckold life for 20+ years, off and on. Currently, my wife is in a relationship that just passed their 1 yr anniversary. Sometimes they play with me present. Many times not. I understand the "angst about her safety" part, but it's not about her safety with her lover. My worries are about them getting caught (he's married) or worse (caught by the police if they choose to get busy in his vehicle, which happens frequently). The worrying for me starts after I think she should have been home, and she's still a no-show. They have a regular date on Friday afternoons after work, to end the work week with a bang (sorry, low-brow humour). Today was typical. The entire time I knew they were together, I was pins and needles, antsy, restless, picturing in my mind what I knew was happening at that minute. Sometimes he'll be extra nasty and text me a picture, just to tease the crap out of me. It's all in good fun though. He knows how mental it makes me. It's especially hard because there isn't any relief. Can't play with myself, of course. Certainly can't orgasm. The "angst" builds until I see the car pull in. After that, it's full on cuckold mode, clean-up and everything else. The relief that she's home instantly gets replaced by the arousal of knowing what I will be doing in a matter of minutes.

On the topic of her masturbating without me, I splurged at Christmas and got her one of those sonic vibes from Lelo. Different than a regular vibrator. Most intense toy she's ever had. Can make her cum in seconds. And there's no wear and tear on her clitoris. So she can go many many times. The fun bit for me is when I hear the sound coming through the ceiling above where I have my computer, as she uses it in the tub. The Lelo is waterproof, so she can play while enjoying a soak. After her bath, when she comes downstairs, I have a huge smile on my face and she gets shy and embarrassed. It's kinda cute, given everything else I've witnessed her do.

My problem is that my kh never, I mean ever plays. Sure she might be embarrassed to say she does but a few years ago she threw away all her vibrators. My question than is how do I get her interested in playing? It makes the male chastity difficult if she’s getting zero gratification from any of our play. T&D is also not happening as she says she just never thinks about it. Does anyone have any thoughts on this?

TwistedMister wrote: ↑Sun Jan 28, 2018 8:37 am Fuck! It's incredibly 'hot' to see this change in her, wanting to 'use' me and seeming to really *enjoy* doing so while my cock is locked in the cage. Who is this woman, and what did she do with my wife? It's almost like someone has been 'coaching' her, but she has never liked to go out on the 'net looking for porn or sex info, so I don't think that has happened...but, whatever it is, it *really* turns me on to see her so eager and *wanting* to do this, apparently all on her own and with no input or suggestion from me...and apparently really enjoying the power to torture my cock by keeping it caged and horny. To see her wanting to do it and enjoying doing it, for herself, was something that I had wished for...is it a wish come true? How long will it last? Has she decided that she wants to take as much advantage as possible, take it as far as possible? I don't know, but it sure has got me horny as hell...

As we go down the path of my chastity I am also seeing fantastic changes in Kitten's attitude toward sex and her sexuality! She surprises me all the time by doing or saying something that would have been shocking just 3 short months ago. I love what is unfolding before my eyes (when I'm not blindfolded...) and can't wait to see what changes will be next in her.

If she has ever masturbated she has kept it from me but, at this point, I don't think it would shock me. How I would react to her pleasing herself, I can't say. I may never find out. Then consider that this is the first day of LOctober and I may find myself straining against my cage and watching, or just hearing, her moan in ecstasy as she teases and torments me before the month is over.

Nothing this wonderful woman does shocks me anymore but I look forward to the next surprise!

I've never pleasured myself. But then, there's always a chance that I might try that. Hmmmmmm ...

I wish KBT was online so I could tell him to meet me in the bedroom to talk about the prospect.

We had done a good amount of swinging and partner swapping before his chastity. Not an open marriage, we both knew who we were with or were present. I would like to return to some form of that once my husband is more settled in to his penis free life (in lack of better words). And in some form we still play with others. We entertain other female friends from the swinging lifestyle from time to time. but no males, no dick I don't need hubby getting all upset about what he's missing until he's fully realized what he's gained. Chastity isn't all take take take for the key holder. I won't dare say I've put as much in to his chastity as him but it is an emotional toll retraining a person you love.

I know that my wife masturbates but she doesn't talk about it in spite of her knowing that I think it's hot. She has the Hitachi available, but more likely she will masturbate in the shower (the head was specifically picked out to make sure it fit her requirements, lol) and there's no way I'd ever know. Once, I tried to pin her down as to how often she masturbates, and she seemed ok with "about once a week" as an answer. She does not want me to masturbate at all but prefers the honor system.

Sex on Saturday is the first time we've played in a month, and as I was thrusting (after her orgasm), she asked me if I'd masturbated since the last time we had sex. I told her no, and she seemed impressed by my discipline but had this look on her face like, "well, that's not true for me". It reminded me of the Monty Python & the Holy Grail bit:

Sir Galahad: "I'm Sir Galahad, the Chaste"
Zoot: "I'm Zoot; just Zoot".

My wife will use her vibe on her own occasionally, but I'd bet that 95% of her climaxes come from my tongue. She doesn't cum from sex with me or anyone else, so far. She has also played alone without me with one of her lovers. She played with him a few times, but he seems to be out of the picture for now, unfortunately, as she is very attracted to him and her only lover that she's found on her own "organically", as opposed to us placing ads.

I wish she would. It doesn’t bother me at all. Frankly I don’t think she does as she’s not nearly as sexual as I would like or I am. I wish she’d do it in front of me while caged. Lol. I have enjoyed myself a lot over the years and it would be selfish to deny her that pleasure. Just because I want to be denied sometimes doesn’t mean she should be. I’d think of it as topping from the bottom if I didn’t want her to please herself.