Keyholder Guides - okay, yeah, no
Posted: Tue Nov 14, 2017 7:17 pm
So ... in my perusal of the scope of the interwebs today, I came across another of those ridiculous “How to be a Keyholder” guides. It was the same, now very common, and generally unhelpful storyline as most of the others I’ve seen. Recent shifts in my own perspective, though, got me to thinking about something ...
It spent some time telling the ladies about how, if they lock their man in chastity long enough, he’ll start doing all the chores happily. It told the ladies that he would do this because he wanted her to let him out and give him an orgasm.
And I thought to myself ...
I was locked in chastity this weekend ...
and I did all of the chores and then some ...
But I did that because I want her to KEEP me locked in chastity and NOT let me have an orgasm.
And as I read around the web, guys giving advice to guys always mention, when she locks you up, suddenly become more helpful, and when she unlocks you, make it a point to be less helpful.
I know that there is a part of my brain that definitely switches over when I’m denied orgasms, and that is further enhanced by the cage. I start to see things more from her perspective, and I want to make her happier and more relaxed. Conserve her energy.
But there’s a little part that keeps looking even further, for more that can be done, to encourage her to believe that I’m better caged and denied.
I’m never hoping that she’ll let me out.
Where’s that “Guide for Keyholders”? The one that says “wait ‘til he’s begging, and then say ‘no’ and wait two more weeks”. The one that says “if he’s begging to be let out, you’re doing it right, don’t stop.”
It spent some time telling the ladies about how, if they lock their man in chastity long enough, he’ll start doing all the chores happily. It told the ladies that he would do this because he wanted her to let him out and give him an orgasm.
And I thought to myself ...
I was locked in chastity this weekend ...
and I did all of the chores and then some ...
But I did that because I want her to KEEP me locked in chastity and NOT let me have an orgasm.
And as I read around the web, guys giving advice to guys always mention, when she locks you up, suddenly become more helpful, and when she unlocks you, make it a point to be less helpful.
I know that there is a part of my brain that definitely switches over when I’m denied orgasms, and that is further enhanced by the cage. I start to see things more from her perspective, and I want to make her happier and more relaxed. Conserve her energy.
But there’s a little part that keeps looking even further, for more that can be done, to encourage her to believe that I’m better caged and denied.
I’m never hoping that she’ll let me out.
Where’s that “Guide for Keyholders”? The one that says “wait ‘til he’s begging, and then say ‘no’ and wait two more weeks”. The one that says “if he’s begging to be let out, you’re doing it right, don’t stop.”