A non D/s wife led marriage.
Posted: Sat Oct 07, 2017 1:53 am
I thought I would share an article which sums up our wife led marriage. Unlike so many other articles it does not require your wife to treat you like a slave while she watches TV all day or dates other men. I never understood why having a husband led marriage does not involve whips and submission but a wife led one does. Just the fantasies of young men. Those books are FLR and even chastity are bought predominately by men, not women.
Anyway this is how we do our wife led marriage. In our case it is all that is discussed in the article and my failing memory. We have done chastity with teasing and denial for years with confining my wife's dominance to sex only. The problem with chastity is that you cannot leave it at the bedroom door as we did with our other fetishes. So it was difficult to go from being sexually dominated in bed but then view your wife as the submissive one outside the bedroom. We have taken care of that problem without involving whips and leather boots. Give it a read if you are into reality based chastity and female led relationships. Of course if you want to make a fetish out of a FLR, go for it. That can be fun too. I tried that a few times but sooner or later the initial excitement wears off and I woke up not feeling like being her slave all day.
http://www.lovepanky.com/love-couch/bet ... st-awesome
This article outlines a wife led marriage that is sustainable and can limit the woman's dominance to any level the couple feels comfortable from just sex to all areas of the marriage and not one whip is used.
Anyway this is how we do our wife led marriage. In our case it is all that is discussed in the article and my failing memory. We have done chastity with teasing and denial for years with confining my wife's dominance to sex only. The problem with chastity is that you cannot leave it at the bedroom door as we did with our other fetishes. So it was difficult to go from being sexually dominated in bed but then view your wife as the submissive one outside the bedroom. We have taken care of that problem without involving whips and leather boots. Give it a read if you are into reality based chastity and female led relationships. Of course if you want to make a fetish out of a FLR, go for it. That can be fun too. I tried that a few times but sooner or later the initial excitement wears off and I woke up not feeling like being her slave all day.
http://www.lovepanky.com/love-couch/bet ... st-awesome
This article outlines a wife led marriage that is sustainable and can limit the woman's dominance to any level the couple feels comfortable from just sex to all areas of the marriage and not one whip is used.