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Locked or Unlocked during sex?

Posted: Sat Sep 23, 2017 11:46 am
by VinnyDee
After a few years of 24/7 lockup, my wife had decided to keep me locked during sex too. With long term orgasm denial she is afraid of an accident happening. Plus she has better orgasms without having to think of my penis at all. She just squeezes my balls to make me moan and then has a very intense orgasm. I miss the edging.

How about you? Do you remain locked during sex?

Re: Locked or Unlocked during sex?

Posted: Sat Sep 23, 2017 4:36 pm
by VinnyDee
Just finished sex. Not so good because I have stitches in my mouth from oral surgery and my wife has a cut at the corner of her mouth. Kissing was all the pleasure I got from sex, so I just held my wife as she used her vibrator. She had to turn away from me because we were both tempted to kiss. She says she is afraid that she will get carried away if I am unlocked and did not want to ruin her current plan to wait until our anniversary next month or maybe New Year's Eve.

Re: Locked or Unlocked during sex?

Posted: Sun Sep 24, 2017 7:10 am
by cuyahoga
I don't stay locked up all the time, but during a locked up period, my wife might take the cage off to have sex, or she might not. It took her a while to realize that she could leave it on, and I would be okay with that. Once she understood that, it stayed on for a lot more encounters.

Re: Locked or Unlocked during sex?

Posted: Wed Sep 27, 2017 9:38 am
by danj
I'm rarely locked for sex, so I said "never". She likes to have full access when we play. Can't say I mind :D

Re: Locked or Unlocked during sex?

Posted: Wed Sep 27, 2017 9:20 pm
by sirmebane
My wife ONLY unlocks me if she has plans for PIV or if I manage to beg for an edging. She is soulless on the topic of being unlocked mostly because she doesn't want to get key and then have to return it once she's had her fun.

I have complained bitterly about missing erections (I truly struggle with how much I miss them) but she is unsympathetic and since I do get off on her being that way it works out. She has gotten upset with me when I try to "play the victim" because it does upset her to think I'm suffering so I have to walk the line with my role playing.

I keep trying to coax her into letting me go down on her more frequently but she's just fine with once every 1-2 weeks. Sometimes I can convince her to let me give her an orgasm when I explain, "this is the only sex I get" but even that doesn't always work.

"Locked most of the time" is how I would vote if it were an option.

Re: Locked or Unlocked during sex?

Posted: Thu Sep 28, 2017 6:53 am
by happilylockedman
We don't have sex as often as I'd like (sound familiar?) and when we do it's usually me giving my wife an orgasm digitally, with me locked up. This is fine with me; it's one of the things I love about being in chastity. I like being on edge from not having cum in weeks and weeks.

Once in a while she wants PIV sex, and I certainly want an orgasm, so she'll unlock me. This changes the experience for me a lot. I love the anticipation of cuming and I love to cum. So when I'm unlocked at a certain point in our encounter my attention shifts totally to myself and my pleasure. I feel conflicted about this when it's happening because I really do love to focus entirely on her pleasure. But Oh! That biological imperative!

I wonder if my brain circuits would fry if halfway into a hot and heavy PIV session she said OK, let's get you locked up again? Let's not find out, OK?

Re: Locked or Unlocked during sex?

Posted: Fri Sep 29, 2017 4:12 am
by TwistedMister
happilylockedman wrote:...Once in a while she wants PIV sex, and I certainly want an orgasm, so she'll unlock me...I wonder if my brain circuits would fry if halfway into a hot and heavy PIV session she said OK, let's get you locked up again? Let's not find out, OK?
Being locked while providing pleasure (usually orally) enhances/increases my arousal. Straining against the cage, knowing that I'm not going to be unlocked pushes my masochistic buttons, it amplifies the feeling of not being 'in control' which makes me strain even harder.

Sometimes Mrs. Twisted *does* unlock me for a little PIV, and/or oral, just a bit, and then wants me locked up again...she enjoys 'teasing' me and then not letting me finish...and that increases my arousal as well.

Re: Locked or Unlocked during sex?

Posted: Sat Oct 07, 2017 11:08 am
by mistressDslave
I would say 70/30 Locked up during sex, if my wife wants penetration she takes me out but most of the time I stay caged!