Tempted to "Out" myself

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Tempted to "Out" myself

Postby happilylockedman » Fri Jul 07, 2017 4:58 pm

A few days ago I wrote how, when I was swimming in a friends' pool, I was concerned that my balls would retract and my device would fall off in full view of them. I didn't want that to happen but part of me did. I guess I have a streak of exhibitionist in me. Also, I think I would welcome having to explain what my wife and I are doing, to the right people. I mean, I see the benefits that we are enjoying and would like to spread the joy. But I know that that would likely lead to a terribly awkward social situation.

After we got home I told my wife about the concerns I described above. She said she hadn't considered my cage falling off and that if it happened it would be a catastrophe. She's just about always right

I think about the delightful situation that caged55 described and would like that for myself!
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Re: Tempted to "Out" myself

Postby TwistedMister » Sat Jul 08, 2017 6:04 am

happilylockedman wrote:I think about the delightful situation that caged55 described and would like that for myself!


Yes, one of the 'fantasies' that 'turns me on', is that of being 'exposed' to certain carefully selected people. I wouldn't care for it to become general knowledge, but I find the idea of limited exposure for the purposes of amusement/humiliation/teasing/service to be highly erotic.

We had a friend who had a side-business selling erotic stuff to women at 'parties', like a 'Tupperware party' only for sex toys. The idea of being brought along to be used as a 'demonstrator' for bondage gear, chastity devices, strap-ons and other toys, along with being teased and 'used' by the participants gives me a stiffy. Unfortunately, she has dropped out of sight and the last rumor we heard was that she had become divorced from her husband who was in the military and on a combat tour in Iraq or somewhere around there...one can guess what might have caused that.
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Re: Tempted to "Out" myself

Postby LOCKED HUSBAND » Sat Jul 08, 2017 8:04 am

I also would love to be exposed in certain situations to others who may be into chastity also or at least sexually open minded . Having others to actually talk to openly in general conversation about the many different feelings and emotions derived from our lifestyle would be great . The thought of being naked caged and being with others clothed or nude being able to feel so free about our lifestyle would be wonderful .
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Re: Tempted to "Out" myself

Postby Finn » Mon Jul 17, 2017 1:59 pm

It's a tricky thing with chastity. Some of the things we would find exciting when aroused, would be a disaster when no so turned on. Wearing something that creates an aroused headspace really needs clear consideration when it comes to this stuff. I'm pretty lucky in that I have a number of very kinky friends, so a few know. I also have non-kinky friends, and people I associate with and do business with. They really should not mix. When there's an issue with the cage being too obvious, I have a pass to take it off. We got a ring with a ball on it, that's intended to be worn during sex, just behind the glans. I wear that instead, so that I'm wearing something to remind me of my chastity. I'm not allowed erections (unlocked) or masturbation, so cheating isn't an issue.
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Re: Tempted to "Out" myself

Postby happilylockedman » Mon Jul 17, 2017 2:51 pm

Finn, could you describe the "ring with a ball on it" more fully. Thanks.
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Re: Tempted to "Out" myself

Postby Locked by LRC » Tue Jul 18, 2017 2:51 pm

We do something like that. Do a search for "head ring" or "glans ring" There's many styles out there.

Try this for a quick check https://www.stockroom.com/head-ring-with-ball.html
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Re: Tempted to "Out" myself

Postby Finn » Wed Jul 19, 2017 4:18 pm

Locked by LRC wrote:We do something like that. Do a search for "head ring" or "glans ring" There's many styles out there.

Try this for a quick check https://www.stockroom.com/head-ring-with-ball.html


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