Living the real life under lock and key
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My wife and my keyholder are two different people. My wife likes toys, so we use a strap-on 99% of the time. My keyholder likes bdsm and denial. We also don't get more than a few days together a month for kink time, although we all hang out together a fair bit, we keep things pretty vanilla then, to avoid jealousy and conflicts. Going without makes all of the intimate experiences far more intense though. I do get one supervised ruined orgasm a month. To get to have a keyholder to serve, is totally worth it.EDAS wrote:This no-erection thing is very extreme. But fun, I imagine. I hope that the wife or girlfriend still gets many orgasms during these no erections period that the man has to endure (or enjoy--depending on her you look at it).
I don't allow my subbie any. And, yes, I certainly get all I want in that department.EDAS wrote:This no-erection thing is very extreme. But fun, I imagine. I hope that the wife or girlfriend still gets many orgasms during these no erections period that the man has to endure (or enjoy--depending on her you look at it).
EDAS wrote:This is very interesting. I am not sure that I, personally, would go down that road of no erections. And anyway I am not caged. But I am into chastity, though I fuck my wife. It's just that, though I fuck her, I do not come, I do not orgasm: I pull out before I do and even then I do not ejaculate outside her body. I have been three months and three weeks in total chastity like this--well, it's more like "chastity with benefits" since I do get to fuck.
But your extreme situation of 'no erections' is very interesting. I would guess that do not get orgasms either. I would also guess that you do not fuck your wife. So what does your wife do for sex? Does she have a lover?