cb6000s vs htv2

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Re: cb6000s vs htv2

Postby GoodOlBoy » Mon Jun 26, 2017 6:28 am

analcuriousfan wrote:Well the book arrived and after she made me read it first, she read it this afternoon.

Sounds like she has made alot of notes and wants to discuss with me tomorrow night as she is out tonight. I asked if I could read her notes first but as she said she was angry and confused when she started reading so its best to wait until she can talk to me and ask me questions.

Im quite nervous but really excited that she has at least taken this step for me. Not sure where this will/wont lead but glad she will be part of the decision not just me fantasising and obsessing while watching porn online.



At this point in my life I don't get a chance to get back here except on very rare occasions. I know it's been a while, but am curious how this worked out for you. I had my wife read the book years ago and it helped her to understand a little. We haven't really been able to play in this much at all, but I can see the light at the end of the tunnel where we'll have more time. She doesn't really understand and won't hold a key, but she does try her best to be a good sport about it.

After taking a lot of time away from this I recently dusted off the CB6000S and we have been having a little fun. The bummer with me is it's sooo flipping hot and humid right now and this doesn't help. We have a few more moths of this ahead of us too.
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Re: cb6000s vs htv2

Postby analcuriousfan » Tue Jul 04, 2017 1:48 pm

It actually seemed to go ok. She was reading alot into the book and thought it was meaning that I was not happy in our relationship and needed it to help fix us. Was quite the opposite though as we are in a pretty rock solid relationship. I just had to do some re-assuring, etc... She was totally against the concepts of making me work (chores) for her to earn freedom and refused to even consider holding the key.

Fast forward to a week or two later and I was wearing it most nights. 7pm to 7am. We cuddle and make out alot and I can't keep my hand off her. Side effect of the device I guess. I think I mentioned somewhere else on this forum that putting it on is like a switch. It turns off my ability to get pleasure so my only outlet is to get pleasure through giving her pleasure. I get off going down on her in bed and making her cum then we cuddle for awhile after before we both go to sleep. We can sometimes do this up to 5 times a week. She is still weirded out by the device but recently (when its not too cold) I have been able to sleep completely naked except for the htv2s in bed with her. It is such a turn on for me cuddling her like that.

I don't know what my label is with this. It isn't the stereotypical dom/sub thing where i earn freedom as I willingly (and desre) to wear it. Even when it is not on I have turned down blow jobs (and my wife gives the most amazing ones) or at least got her to stop before cumming as I am happy having that level of desire running that would probably crash after an orgasm.

Hopefully that helps. Let me know if you want to know anything else.
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Re: cb6000s vs htv2

Postby GoodOlBoy » Sun Jul 09, 2017 6:30 am

Sounds like it went well. I had similar questions and had to assure her we were solid after bringing the subject up and giving her the book. She was I think surprised that after 15+ years together to learn that I was into something like this and I think it's still a little "kinky" for her, but she's a good sport and plays along (that was then, it's 20+ years now). If she only knew about some of the other things :o

I can identify with not being interested in a dom/sub where I have to to chores or anything like that, but would love to try some role reversal / pegging among other things in the bedroom (metaphorically of course, it could be in the kitchen or any where else for that matter :) ) But that'd be way to far out there for her.

I have also turned down some attention. Funny that I never thought I'd asked a woman not to finish after she started, but although it's really tough to do I have asked for just that. Love it when she'll stroke for a while and then stop, or better yet the times she's done that, had me finish her off and not finished me. It's hardly ever on her own, but it's really hot when she does it.

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I guess I do have a question, how does the htv2 compare to the cb6000s? For the most part the cb is good, but there could always be improvements. I liked the s better than the regular 6000, guess I'm more of a grower.
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Re: cb6000s vs htv2

Postby analcuriousfan » Sun Jul 09, 2017 2:01 pm

I am a grower as well I guess. Just over 6" fully erect. My journey went like this.

cb6k - This was my first and was handy with the sizing rings. Found it easy to get on allowed my body to get used to it. As I was a grower though I had a lot of free space at the end so got a ot of issues with the rubbing of my penis growing and shrinking in the tube over night.

cbks - Chatted to lovehoney (websie I got it from) and they happily let me return the cb6k for a cb6ks. This was so much better although I had the experience of wearing the longer one first. Had issues getting it on as it was alot smaller but after a few weeks I managed to get the hang of it, even dropped down a ring size as I realised it needed to be snugger down there to limit movement. The more it could move, the more uncomfortable it was.

htv2s - After a lot of issues with my wife getting freaked out by the pointy lock on the cb6ks I ordered an htv2s. This was easier as I had the cb6ks for sizing. This was the hardest transition. I could only wear for an hour or two at a time while I guess my body got used to it. Was uncomfortable and tighter than I wanted. But... after a couple of weeks of this I started wearing overnight, then it started becoming very comfortable. Especially cuddling now with the integrated lock.

So as of right now I find the htv2s to be the most comfortable device I have ever worn but my journey had some speed bumps getting to this point. Individual mielage will var though but I am so happy I made the change. Only issue I really have is that you need the key to put it on as it doesn't have a regular padlock. Small concern though.

I sometimes wish I could roll out more of my kinks, she knows about the fact that I want her to fuck me with a strapon, but there are alot more (far heavier) things I would love for her to do also. She seems ok with the chastity but has her moments, like last night she came home and I was wearing my device (naked also as I like sleeping naked sometimes). I guess she wasn't in the mood so when I tried cuddlling and the cage kept touching her from behind she would pull away. Still very much a work in progress I guess so my other kinks will stay in the closet for now.

Its funny how when I started going out with my wife, my favourite thing was her amazing blowjobs. If you told me that in the future I'd want to lock my dick up so she couldn't suck my dick, and when she did suck, I'd want her to stop before I came... Well I would have thought that was crazy. Funny how things change.
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Re: cb6000s vs htv2

Postby VinnyDee » Sat Oct 07, 2017 12:55 pm

I had both. The CB6000 cage split and two rings broke in a matter of a few months. Switched to the HT2. I like the Holy Trainer much better. It is two pieces and integrated lock. No more fiddling with pegs and spacers. The ring was also ergonomic and more comfortable. However, the problem with both of them is that they are a closed cage design with just a few openings. For 24/7/365 wear, they tend to start smelling quickly and I had to remove them to shower. Plus my wife wanted the ability to clearly see my penis, dig her nails into it and also place it into her mouth and feel my skin. A Jailbird solved the problems. I thought that a custom cage would only be a small improvement but it was a major improvement for me. My penis touches all sides of the cage when flaccid. The spacer is adjusted for me as is the ring. I could go in-between sizes on both and not settled for the ring sizes that came with a device. It is very sturdy and will last longer than I will. It curves down nicely so it is not noticeable under my pants. I have worn it around groups of women a lot and no one noticed or gave it a glance. With the security screw it is lightweight. I have worn mine for over 4 years, every day that I did not have any skin irritation which was a few days a year.
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