Ruined orgasms: love/hate relationship

[Grizzly228]

I've posted about my feelings on ruined orgasms before but I think this post is a little different.

I'm on day 17 of a 41 day stint. So far I've had no orgasm or release of any kind and the tension is mounting. Usually around this point my gf gives me a ruined orgasm intentionally or accidentally but I really want to go the full 41 days without any release to make the eventual ejaculatoon that much more epic.

So my question is this; for this who have gone over 3 weeks without any type of ejaculation have you felt a major difference in pleasure or do you recommend a ruined one to clear the pipes every few weeks and does it limit the eventual orgasm?

[EDAS]

I have gone up to three months without an orgasm, not even a ruined one. Usually, I will go for two months without an orgasm and again without even a ruined one. I guess I am a puritan in this instance: I consider even a ruined orgasm to be too much pleasure even though it may not be as fully pleasurable as a real orgasm.

The reason I don't go further than two or three months without an orgasm is because, well, accidents happen. I wish I could avoid those accidents, since my real goal is never ever to come again in my whole life.

I don't believe that the "pipes" need a regular flushing. Popes and Buddhist monks seem to be able to go forever without orgasms (well, one presumes they do not masturbate to orgasm) without any damages to the tubes or the piping.

[BreadBox]

I too find that around the 11-15 day mark I tend to hit a point where my desire for release "peaks." But this is my experience:

As far as effecting the overall orgasm intensity, I think that depends on the "hotness" of the release. When Mrs. Breadbox works me up and pushes the right buttons, my release is almost overwhelming. However, if the situation is a little less than that, then my release is still excellent, just not as intense. I have found this to hold for me whether or not I have had a ruined O or not leading up to the release.

But, I must say, the psychological effect of waiting that long without any type of pressure release is rewarding on its own (at least for me). But, that decision is not up to me and I am more than happy to oblige. This is purely my own experience.

[carolina cyclist]

For me, any orgasm beyond in the past year has been more pleasurable than the last whether it is only 7 days, the shortest time MrsL has imposed up to the 61 day mark without any type of release.

I will say; however, that the orgasm after 61 days was earth shattering. My entire body started quivering as the pressure mounted toward the orgasm. When my groin finally erupted, I was a shaking, shuddering, mumbling mess!! It was as much physical as it was psychological, I guess. All I know is it was unlike any orgasm I have ever had in the past!

Best of luck on your 41 day stint.

[cycling2work]

my longest stint without any kind of O. was 25 days. That ended yesterday. I kind of miss the feeling i had. want to go back there but not sure that is what my wife wants... we will see..

[McAndrew]

The reason I don't go further than two or three months without an orgasm is because, well, accidents happen. I wish I could avoid those accidents, since my real goal is never ever to come again in my whole life.

That's the reason we only play with relatively short term denial.
When we have tried it's only two or three weeks before I have a wet dream. Sometimes only a few days.

So we make a lot of use of ruined orgasms. I find that it doesn't feel anything like proper release, but does allow me to PIV serve my wife, with no danger of having to stop before she's satisfied.

[LOCKED HUSBAND]

I have been so long now with out a full orgasm I think I forgot what it feels like . There have been about 6 ruined in the past 16 months . I enjoy being drained but am hoping in the future to be milked with no feeling other than the urge to pee that comes just as the cum starts to flow . Am hoping to be drained completely but still able to get hard and penetrate her and only feel frustrated as there will be nothing left to orgasm with .
Has anyone had any experience with trying this ?

[slave d]

My personal experience is that milking does NOT prevent orgasm. Immediately after i'm milked completely empty MsM can (She doesn't unfortunately !!) stimulate me further and i will have a dry orgasm. Maybe not as strong as a full ejaculatory orgasm but definately an orgasm !!

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