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What has been your longest period of chastity?

Posted: Fri Sep 06, 2013 11:40 pm
by Cravingdenial
What has been your longest period of orgasm denial with or without a device?

My current period of denial is 78 days at the minimum (I am at day 76 at the time of this writing with two days to go if I'm lucky).

Re: What has been your longest period of chastity?

Posted: Sat Sep 07, 2013 4:34 am
by TwistedMister
About 2 months, might be a couple of days + or -.

Re: What has been your longest period of chastity?

Posted: Sat Sep 07, 2013 6:53 am
by Tom Allen
In the middle of it right now, actually. I'm at about 13-1/2 months.

I wrote about it recently, and the surprising thing is that at this point it's actually gotten easier to manage.

Re: What has been your longest period of chastity?

Posted: Sat Sep 07, 2013 10:37 am
by sherulestherooster
The longest I have gone without orgasm is just shy of a month, something like 26 days. My wife asked me this very question and she didn't seem to believe me, although I have kept pretty detailed records of our sex play on my blog (save this summer, when I forgot). She seems continually intrigued by the idea of breaking this record.

Re: What has been your longest period of chastity?

Posted: Sat Sep 07, 2013 4:55 pm
by locked4her55
Last year on my 57th birthday I made some comment to my wife (half kidding) that maybe I should be denied for 57 days. She :) and said "Ok". Didn't really think she would go through with it but in the end I did 62 days with no release and no O. This has been my longest period.

Re: What has been your longest period of chastity?

Posted: Sun Sep 08, 2013 11:45 pm
by Cravingdenial
Tom Allen wrote:In the middle of it right now, actually. I'm at about 13-1/2 months.

I wrote about it recently, and the surprising thing is that at this point it's actually gotten easier to manage.
I read your article, Tom, and I had a similar experience at about 60 days. I realized I had stopped thinking so much about my denial and found it freeing to be less obsessed by my sex drive. Of course, coping in my fifties is much easier than if I were in my thirties or forties. Still, I could probably go on like this a lot longer but I have a feeling that tomorrow is my day. The thrill is, of course, that I could be wrong!

Re: What has been your longest period of chastity?

Posted: Tue Sep 10, 2013 11:47 pm
by Cravingdenial
Cravingdenial wrote:What has been your longest period of orgasm denial with or without a device?

My current period of denial is 78 days at the minimum (I am at day 76 at the time of this writing with two days to go if I'm lucky).
Well, my wife did relieve me at 78 days, so that's my longest thus far. :)

Re: What has been your longest period of chastity?

Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2013 7:40 am
by danj
21 days, but that was quite a while ago. As for in a device without any release? About 5 days. We don't like things to go too long without a good cleaning.

Re: What has been your longest period of chastity?

Posted: Wed Sep 11, 2013 10:29 am
by Tom Allen
The chastity/OD community doesn't really have a set syntax for some of the things that we do, so you get people (mainly guys) who try to over-think answers to questions like this.

The longest time I've spent in a device; i.e., without removing it for cleaning, adjusting, or anything else, was 4-1/2 months. It was a modded CB3000, which I still use, BTW, and the cuff ring broke while we were fooling around, or else I'd have been in much longer.

Until recently, the longest time I spent with no orgasm was 8-1/2 months. That was mostly wearing the device, with a few removals for checking, cleaning, and adjusting.

This time around is mainly OD because that just happens to be where we are in our life at the moment. I've had a few ruined orgasms to clear the pipes; she uses the "stifling" method, in which she clamps down hard at the last second, although recently we've been playing with just edging up to the "almost but not quite" point.

Re: What has been your longest period of chastity?

Posted: Thu Sep 12, 2013 8:28 pm
by HeldForHer
8 months.