Tongue? Not So Much...

[michaelnmelissa]

Hi all,

I think it's interesting how so much of the chastity fiction and advice focuses on the chastised male giving the woman tons of oral sex.

I love to give it and would do it for Melissa everyday if she wanted. The thing is, though, is that she is not into it so much. She likes it at times, especially 69, but most of the time she'd rather not.

What she does love me to do often is for me to use the head of my cock on her clit. I rub and rub and, when she tells me to, go inside of her for a bit until she wants me to rub her again.

She loves to come this way a lot all the while not letting me come. It's a lot more difficult for me to do this than it would be to use my tongue.

Anyone else not that into oral?

Michael

[Tom Allen]

I think it's interesting how so much of the chastity fiction and advice focuses on the chastised male giving the woman tons of oral sex.

I suspect that's a factor of most chastity porn having been written by men, for men.

My wife enjoys oral - once in a great while. She's one of those women who prefers penetration, which is why we invested in a quality strap-on. Alternately, she will unlock me, and I have to take my time (unless she gives me permission to come).

That said, she was surprised when the other day I told her that I prefer hand jobs over oral. I mean, most guys claim to prefer oral, so what's the problem? It's that I've decided that I prefer to feel all of her body lying next to me; getting oral feels a bit disembodied. Not unpleasant, mind you, it's just that I prefer the more sensual experience.

With that in mind, I can well understand why she prefers penetration; she likes the press of my weight on hers, and enjoys holding on to different areas. While oral is good for an orgasm once in a while, it's more sensual to feel all of me on top of her.

[jnuts]

Belle isn't into it that much either.

[Dev]

Just this morning I was thinking how much I was craving my husband's tongue (and yes, I eventually got it).

This is a recent development, however. I was mostly an "oral ::shrugs::" type of woman. But since chastity has become part of our lives I am finding my senses are heightened and experiences that used to be "eh" are much more anticipated and enjoyable. I mentioned in another thread that Ab likes me playing with his nipples more than before. Now I like and want his tongue more. It's all part of the process, I think.

Who knows, Michael, maybe Melissa will have a similar experience.

D

[Harry Haversackers]

My young bride is much the same as it appears most wives are here, at least so far. She has to be in a particular frame of mind before even considering allowing me to give her oral, and often it doesn't last. If she gets into it, her orgasms are spectacular, but it really doesn't happen that often. Otherwise, penetration (where I have to be verrry careful), or my finger on her G-spot do the trick.

Now, having said that, like Dev, she is warming to it. She recently told me that it turns her on to have me stroke myself while my tongue is in action, knowing that I want to orgasm badly, but can't.

I love her taste, so I'll continue to offer my oral services, and hope that the trend toward more of it, as slow as it is, will continue.

[L&N]

K loves oral. She also loves penetration. She has told me several times that getting her orgasms from oral is her favorite and results in the best of orgasms. Sometimes she gets too uptight during oral and we will finish her up with a vibrator. The vibrator is used with me laying beside her sucking one breast and working the other with my hand. A few times, I have entered her vaginally from behind (doggy style) while she used a vibrator on her clit to orgasm. She hasn't commented on preference for this method, so I assume oral is still her favorite. Yes,I'm in heaven!

[Dev]

While we're on the subject of what's written and what is reality vs. fantasy, I have a question I'll throw out there...dripping pussies. How real is (myth) of dripping pussies? I ask because I'm not a dripper and never have been. So I find these blogs, etc., that have women soaking through their panties, stockings, skirts, pants, and so on at the drop of a hat or soaking the bedsheets--really soaking--when they orgasm to be rather, um, imaginary. But maybe that's me. What's the experience of others out there?

D

[jnuts]

Not that i have experienced. But is is hard to tell how wet she is after I unleash 3 gallons of cum on her.

[Dev]

Not that i have experienced. But is is hard to tell how wet she is after I unleash 3 gallons of cum on her.

Well, true. But some of the stuff I read, women are dripping like faucets before they've ever been touched. In fact, that's part of the dialog...the guy reaches over, touches her panties (through 3 layers of clothes) and says, "Oh, honey, you're soaked, are you that hot for me?"

I find this trope to be true in lesbian fic and porn, too.

D

[Atone]

I had a girlfriend once that would get pretty wet, not three layers of clothes wet, but panties wet. Back to the original topic, my wife enjoys oral sex and that is how she orgasms about 2/3rds of the time. That could be influenced by me to some extent though. I love to perform oral on her so there is a little pressure. I will say that without a doubt the orgasms she has from oral are far more intense than from any other means.

-A