michaelnmelissa wrote:MC has been reorienting my thinking to want what she wants first and foremost. I know we'll do it again - just not as often as I'd like and that's okay.
I feel very much the same. I am right now in the process of adjusting to placing her pleasure and wants first. This is not easy after years of self gratification, and it is also an adjustment for her...i.e., not just giving in because she knows I'm craving an orgasm...when she might just prefer I please her orally, then cuddle. I sort of see my goal to be what I saw in one of Dev's posts..."her pleasure is my pleasure".