Trying to be hard causes soreness

[Blaeu]

First, some background. My wife and I use our CB6000s as a "toy" and engage in short term chastity (a week, two max). We have a very active sex life and enjoy short term denial / control. During these sessions I am often teased, released and played with (including fucking her), but never allowed to orgasm. Not sure if any of this is applicable, but I wanted to say it just in case.

Anyway, on some days I feel like I'm constantly trying to become erect. It's not really painful, but it does have the "being squeezed" feeling. After a day of this (or longer), my penis starts to feel bruised. I know it's not, but it's a good way to describe the feeling. Twice now I've had to remove the CB because it hurt too much to keep it on.

In contrast, without the teasing and releases to fuck and no orgasm, I can keep it on for two weeks without issue. It seems that being horny and constantly aroused is the source of my problem.

All this said, is there a way to lessen the pain, deal with the pain, or avoid it all together? I don't think there is, but I figured it couldn't hurt to ask. Thanks.

[Atone]

I don't have an explanation or solution but I have the same thing happen to me sometimes. Not so bad that I have to take off the device but I could see how it could get to that if it went much longer. For me it usually goes away after a day or two.

[Tom Allen]

Yeah, been there, done that. Can't really explain it. I think I eventually just got used to it, but it took a while.

[Blaeu]

Well, that's a mixed blessing. Cannot do anything about it, but it gets better. Heh. Thanks for the replies. Next time I'll try to tough it out and see what happens. It's amazing how reassuring it is to know that "it happens."

[wishful4]

Well, that's a mixed blessing. Cannot do anything about it, but it gets better. Heh. Thanks for the replies. Next time I'll try to tough it out and see what happens. It's amazing how reassuring it is to know that "it happens."

Same thing happened to me using the CB6Ks device. Since moving on to a Mature metal device with the cage a tad larger diameter, the soreness does not occur. I can only conclude that the CB cage was too small in diameter for me.

[hot_toddy_dog]

Sometimes it happens. Being hard causing soreness usually only occurs if I've been turning myself on too much for too long. However, that said, sometimes it happens all on its own.

Wanting to be aroused, but too hard and too sore to get into it; making love, wanting to be more aroused and more hard; making love and having a painful pinch; having a painful pinch and not wanting to get aroused, but can't help it... all of these things happen from time to time. Not everything you experience while in chastity is going to be perfect. I just enjoy it regardless because while in chastity I have fewer orgasms o.O

[finallyhappy]

I will actually that a cialis from time to time just to more easily create that feeling. As uncomfortable as it feels it also feels so hot.