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Things that rub your "happy chastity" buttons

Postby mikecb » Fri Dec 03, 2010 12:51 pm

So, I just did a little blog entry on Predicament Chastity. It's something that really rubs my buttons as a hot chastity scenario.

It got me thinking. What other general class of things are really hot when I (or you) think of chastity. When you read a story, is there some pivotal concept that makes your juices flow, the tent in your pants, or the chastity tube seem suddenly more constricted?

Here's a few I can think of, that people have associated directly with their chastity fantasies. Some are my fantasy, though most are not. Maybe others can think of more?

    Predicament Chastity.
    Permanent, irrevocable chastity (the mythical un-removable device).
    Cuckholding while in chastity.
    Tease and Denial.
    Non-reciprocal sex. (Giving, but not receiving orgasms)
    Domestic Service (house cleaning, etc).
    Body Service (massage, mani-pedi, shaving).
    Toilet Service (golden showers, scat).
    Forced homosexuality.
    Humiliation.
    Cross-dressing.
    Pain play.
    Female Domination.
    Female Supremacy.
    Long term chastity (weeks, months, years without release).

For me, the ones that rub my buttons most are "Tease and Denial", "Predicament Chastity", "Non-reciprocal sex" and "Long Term Chastity".

This is all from a male (and admittedly whorish) perspective. Ladies, feel free to chime in with yours too.

So, can you quantify what rubs your buttons? If you had to make a "top 3" list. What would they be?

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Re: Things that rub your "happy chastity" buttons

Postby Tom Allen » Fri Dec 03, 2010 3:31 pm

mikecb wrote:It got me thinking. What other general class of things are really hot when I (or you) think of chastity. When you read a story, is there some pivotal concept that makes your juices flow, the tent in your pants, or the chastity tube seem suddenly more constricted?


Not sure what categories that these fit into - sort of long-term, predicamenty, kind of things.

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Re: Things that rub your "happy chastity" buttons

Postby mikecb » Fri Dec 03, 2010 3:41 pm

Tom Allen wrote:
mikecb wrote:It got me thinking. What other general class of things are really hot when I (or you) think of chastity. When you read a story, is there some pivotal concept that makes your juices flow, the tent in your pants, or the chastity tube seem suddenly more constricted?


Not sure what categories that these fit into - sort of long-term, predicamenty, kind of things.

http://vanillaedge.wordpress.com/2010/0 ... d-of-time/

http://vanillaedge.wordpress.com/2007/0 ... y-present/

http://vanillaedge.wordpress.com/2009/0 ... -distance/


Thanks, Pal. Thanks a lot! I've been sick for a week. Only had time to read one before heading to the Doctor. Now I'm running out the door with a tent in my pants.

Thanks a bunch! :o
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Re: Things that rub your "happy chastity" buttons

Postby wishful4 » Fri Dec 03, 2010 6:20 pm

Mike,

Pretty comprehensive list. Guess my hot buttons are(in no particular order):
Predicament chastity
Tease & Denial
Body Service
Golden Showers(a fantasy only at this point)
Non-reciprocal sex

Now pardon me, I have to go calm down a bit! Whew!
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Re: Things that rub your "happy chastity" buttons

Postby Dev » Fri Dec 03, 2010 7:31 pm

Thinking about this, I realized I like really really way out there stuff---sort of stuff that will never happen in real life. Quite extreme body modification, extreme control scenarios (which usually involve body mods)---I think part of it is that I *know* this could never happen in real life and that's what makes it a fantasy.

Then again, it was a story that got me started on chastity in the first place and in retrospect that story wasn't that extreme but at the time I read it, the whole notion of owning someone's cock and being in charge of his orgasms seemed completely bizarre and hot to me. How far we come in just a few months! LOL.

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Re: Things that rub your "happy chastity" buttons

Postby Atone » Fri Dec 03, 2010 8:05 pm

I like your whole list either to do or just fantasize about. I think the top of my list would be a combination of two of your items - long term chastity with the mythical un-removable device. The idea of really not being in control as in I couldn't remove it even if I wanted to is super hot. I wouldn't want it to be permanent but definitely long term. And not on *my* terms.

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Re: Things that rub your "happy chastity" buttons

Postby michaelnmelissa » Sat Dec 04, 2010 11:19 am

Here are mine:

Predicament Chastity.
Tease and Denial.
Non-reciprocal sex. (Giving, but not receiving orgasms)
Strap-on sex (giving and receiving).
Domestic Service (house cleaning, etc).
Body Service (massage, mani-pedi, shaving).
Pain play (balls esp.)
Female Domination.
Long term chastity (weeks, months, years without release).

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Re: Things that rub your "happy chastity" buttons

Postby likes2blocked » Sat Dec 04, 2010 6:37 pm

So this is fiction, right?

T&D, of course. Strap-on sex, D&S. A huge fantasy is being outed to another woman (or group of women), and then servicing her (or them) while still locked up. The idea of her owning me to the point that she can in essence loan me out is a trigger.

Certainly fictional, but the idea of a Latowski-type device that completely prevents any contact, with removal for cleaning and teasing only taking place while restrained is completely hot. Another fictional idea that is hot would be a place where MC, D&S, and other kinks were part of the fabric of the place - kind of a Hedonism for really, really kinky folks. I think there actually was a place near Prague that did something like this, but I'm not sure if they're still around - web site worked, but seemed out of date.

Of course, most of this turns me on IRL (where feasible - note above being one example that isn't feasible), so anything I like to do, I like to read about.
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Re: Things that rub your "happy chastity" buttons

Postby davidphd1866 » Sun Dec 05, 2010 1:29 pm

The one that gets me is "non-reciprocal sex". When I am left to wonder about things after she falls asleep....jeepers, what a feeling.

There is another that I didn't see that I'd add to the list:

Telling her girlfriend(s)

I quietly go nuts at the thought of her best girlfriend finding out.

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Re: Things that rub your "happy chastity" buttons

Postby mikecb » Sun Dec 05, 2010 1:55 pm

david,

Yea, I think I had "Telling girlfriends" in the "Humiliation" category in my own mind, but I'm sure Humiliation is a much broader category, in reality.

I think Dev touched on a few good notions.

"Surrender of ownership" - the idea that you don't own your cock or orgasms any more.
"Nullification" - either perceptual nullification by a full belt - you no longer feel like you have a penis - you're smooth and sexless, or actual nullification by bodymod - castration, penectomy, or both.

I wonder. It's mostly the guys who are "visual creatures", but I've heard several female comments about "I like the look of his cock, locked up in the cage." For me, I actually prefer the full belts, visually. I think it's because I have a small nullification fetish. Most women, so far as I can tell, prefer the cage type devices. Does seeing a cock, locked behind bars rub some "I own it, it's mine!" buttons?

Thanks, Dev, for chiming in. I'm still anxious to hear more female perceptions on what makes it hot.

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