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I might invest in one of these for a Christmas Present for Bez can they be worn with a chastity device on or would I have to release him to fit it?
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Sally wrote:I might invest in one of these for a Christmas Present for Bez can they be worn with a chastity device on or would I have to release him to fit it?
When we were playing around with it the other night--our prototype testing--Ab did have his WM on. It was kind of awkward and I think if you were going to have some serious playtime it would be best without wearing a device. But, you'll have him immobilized by his legs. Cuff his hands to something so he won't be able to do anything and then go to town! LOL.

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Yes, they're designed to be worn sans device.
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I can't see how you could use a humbler and a device (well a ball trap one anyway).To fit it, you need to get a good grip on the balls and stretch them out - pretty impossible with the usual devices in place. That's why "high and tight" is a bit of a problem but I ....ahem...innovated with a hair scrunchie first. I could barely do the screws up for giggling....
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I see Sally is putting the humbler on my Christmas present list,I have looked on several websites and see how the humbler works. Celtic Queen you seem to have put somebody in one of these devices are they as uncomfortable as they look in and should I be trying to get it off my list?
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Bez be careful what you wish for !!! I would be interested in Celtics Queen's response could be fun in your Christmas Stocking.

Editor- sorry I know we should not discuss with each other on the forum but I could not resist it! Sally
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Lol, well it may not actually be YOUR choice Bez!

I would say that the Humbler is a fun humiliation tool as oppose to a CBT implement so it's whatever you guys want to get up to!! I tend to think of our toys in terms of categories. There's stuff that hurts (crops, canes , my wooden hairbrush etc), stuff that's fun (e-stim, my fur lined slapper, vibrators) and stuff that I would class as "training" which re enforces Dominance and that includes humiliation tools- well, the Humbler sits there. Now how you classify is going to be very individual. Bez may absolutely LOVE his humbler or he may break into a nervous sweat every time you ask him to fetch it- either way- buy it and enjoy.

Fitting it is fiddly and takes practice. My hub is high and tight so there was a lot of uncomfortable tugging and some unladylike cursing before we had it on successfully. I then made him clean all my shoes and, being a lady- I have plenty of shoes which made the effort worth while. I've asked him to log in tomorrow and give his point of view.
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Bez wrote:I see Sally is putting the humbler on my Christmas present list,I have looked on several websites and see how the humbler works. Celtic Queen you seem to have put somebody in one of these devices are they as uncomfortable as they look in and should I be trying to get it off my list?
CQ- I've asked him to log in tomorrow and give his point of view.

Celtic Queen does indeed place me in the Humbler on occasion and they are not comfortable, nor are they meant to be! The net effect of the device is to make it impossible to stand up straight. Standing even crouched/squatting is quite difficult. She uses the device to re-enforce my submission to her and I often have to conduct tasks whilst in the device.

It is heavy and definitely pulls your sack and balls down, extra weight can be added to, when she is feeling particularly ‘playful’

I don’t particularly enjoy the device but I wear it as CQ finds it vey amusing to watch me try and operate and conduct tasks in it. I basically have to crawl everywhere and it is humiliating and you have to be extremely careful about your movements.

I fail to see how it can be used with a ball trap chastity device, but I guess it all depends on your individual physiology, for me it is impossible. After a while, say about 45 minutes to an hour it becomes very hard to bear.

It does produce a dull ache higher in the groin area after this time in the region of the Inguinal Ligament/canal (the tube your testes descend down when you were a kid). If you have ever had a hernia in this area you will need to be careful and mindful not to put too much weight on your balls!

Our device uses screws to close and open and it can take a few minutes to get it off so again, device dependant, make sure you can remove it as quickly and as safely as you can. Once your balls are free and the blood starts to circulate more efficiently you may feel a warm and tingling sensation in them and it is akin to ‘pins and needles’/dead arm feelings, such as sleeping on an arm for too long, but not as unpleasant as that.

As my Wife says it is used as a training tool and to make sure I know my place, it is very effective for that and works well to ensure I behave. Often the threat of a Humbler session is enough to keep me in line.

I hope you ‘enjoy’ playing with one.
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Hi Thankyou for your help Dev,Celtic Queen & Celtic Queen Sub- Bez I warned you about wishing for things !!the Humbler, along with a pair of leather cuffs have been ordered and will appearr in your Christmas Stocking under the tree,when they get used for the first time could well depend on whats under the tree for me.! Sally
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How sexy! I want one! :)
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