*Doesn't this sound a LOT like what couples are doing with Male Chastity???
thumper wrote:Well, WTF do I know about female orgasms except how to make them happen,
There ARE women chastity enthusiasts, but I'm guessing the motivations and outcomes are very, very different for them. It seems as though the two crowds hardly ever mix online.
Anyway, I really DO understand what you guys are saying but no one can explain to me what makes it different from the 100% male orgasm 0% female orgasm relationship?
Celtic Queen wrote:I've always thought that chastity and tantric sex are closely linked but I think OD is perhaps a step further on and I do like the phrase "altered state" here. It is a case of it being incomprehensible until you try it ( for both genders). My hub's response to regular edging is so counter intuitive in a culture that has spawned such negative terms like "cock tease" that I was totally dumbfounded - and so was he. We're so used to the race to the finish line, the tangible prize that OD is - for the non practicers- quite shocking. You only have to read the fury and vehemence on the vanilla forums when it's brought up so see that. You just can't intellectualise it, it's completely counter cultural to us and I guess it probably DOES figure in tantric practices but at a significantly more advanced level otherwise entry level newbies would be put off from even trying it!
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