No offence taken
Reading another thread on how to find a KH I noticed one difference between chastity and Devotional Sex.
One person suggested that one way was "you might seek a relationship with a special other and when the time is right, give that special person the gift of your sexuality in the form of a key when you have developed trust."
What I recommend with Devotional Sex is that the man talk about things just before, or during the very beginning, of first intimacy, and then Devotional Sex starts from the very beginning of the relationship.
I have had great success when dating 'normal' women in having my date enjoy 'my kink' - often on a first date.
I wonder if there is a way that a man into chastity could broach this, and often be successful, right from the first date? How would you make male chastity sound attractive to a woman at a first date?