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[justplaying]

Thumper...yes control is a different deal...I haven't gotten to that head space yet with my lady. But in the case of control, plastic locks and the honor system are clearly not the same thing....that's why I thought the cyber lock idea was pretty cool. Your key holder still controls when the key is active or not...you have the key, but it will not work without her permission. Is that enough control? I don't know....like I said, I am new to this and haven't gotten that far into it yet...only a few months...reading your blog has given me some good ideas though. Thanks!

[Jimi123]

Another thought and this maybe more for those seeing the doctor etc. This is a game, its a kink it whatever you make of it. I mean at some point no matter what kind of control you wish to have or be had in... There are bolt cutters and people can just say "no more for me"

So...

When your dealing with people who are not doing this with you is it ok to push their faces into it? ie going to a physical and swinging around your CB. Or to a less extent going through airport security where I would say there will be people who have no clue about this and are only wondering if this is some "underwear bomber #2" and get a ton of people scared and freaked out?

[Shane67]

I have a different perspective: they are putting their face in my business. If it's your job to stare under people's clothing then getting offended/freaked out just comes with the territory.

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When your dealing with people who are not doing this with you is it ok to push their faces into it?

[Dev]

Another thought and this maybe more for those seeing the doctor etc. This is a game, its a kink it whatever you make of it. I mean at some point no matter what kind of control you wish to have or be had in... There are bolt cutters and people can just say "no more for me"

This is a good point. I was reading a blog recently and the woman (allegedly) made her sissy-husband go to his annual physical wearing his pink ruffled panties. I thought to myself, "This is so inappropriate." I think part of playing adult games is knowing where the boundaries are.

The thing with chastity is that a person can be still playing the game, even without the device. That was the context for my comment about being undisciplined. As a keyholder, I could say to my husband, "You will be free for the 8 hours of travel time. During that time, there will be no touching and no masturbating in the bathroom; when you get to your hotel room the device gets put on and locked---and you send me photographic evidence." I would trust him to do as I asked. And for him, it is about control--to control himself and be honest with me that he followed my instructions.

I have a different perspective: they are putting their face in my business. If it's your job to stare under people's clothing then getting offended/freaked out just comes with the territory.

I doubt they'd freak out or be offended but you'd probably be the brunt of a bunch of jokes in the lunchroom.

More importantly, as someone else said in a different blog (I have no idea where so I can't quote it directly)--you are dealing with a low-level civil servant who is in a position to make your life miserable. What's more important: getting to your destination and having a relatively hassle-free trip or wearing your CB?

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[thumper]

As a keyholder, I could say to my husband, "You will be free for the 8 hours of travel time. During that time, there will be no touching and no masturbating in the bathroom; when you get to your hotel room the device gets put on and locked---and you send me photographic evidence." I would trust him to do as I asked. And for him, it is about control--to control himself and be honest with me that he followed my instructions.

That's probably where we'll end up, but it wasn't Belle's first choice. It's not a matter of discipline, it's what she wants. I can totally be trusted to do whatever she told me to.

[Shane67]

If you're not going to wear the CB-6000 through security, then I think you might as well take the SH and use two of these (similar in concept to Atone's idea, but I think with more of the "control" element that you crave):

http://www.amazon.com/Security-Original ... d_sim_hi_6

Have Belle set the code, and once through security, hop into a bathroom stall (being careful not to adopt a "wide stance"), put on the device, and pop the key into the lock box, all with face time on the iPhone so that Belle can watch the whole thing.

On the way back, do the same thing with the second lock box, but with the added spice of wondering whether Belle will actually pick up the phone to give you the code for getting into the first one.

(Assuming you're a modern bunny and have Amazon Prime, these lock boxes can be at your door tomorrow for just an additional $3.99 ...)

[Jimi123]

This is a good point. I was reading a blog recently and the woman (allegedly) made her sissy-husband go to his annual physical wearing his pink ruffled panties. I thought to myself, "This is so inappropriate." I think part of playing adult games is knowing where the boundaries are.

The thing with chastity is that a person can be still playing the game, even without the device. That was the context for my comment about being undisciplined. As a keyholder, I could say to my husband, "You will be free for the 8 hours of travel time. During that time, there will be no touching and no masturbating in the bathroom; when you get to your hotel room the device gets put on and locked---and you send me photographic evidence." I would trust him to do as I asked. And for him, it is about control--to control himself and be honest with me that he followed my instructions.

I doubt they'd freak out or be offended but you'd probably be the brunt of a bunch of jokes in the lunchroom.

More importantly, as someone else said in a different blog (I have no idea where so I can't quote it directly)--you are dealing with a low-level civil servant who is in a position to make your life miserable. What's more important: getting to your destination and having a relatively hassle-free trip or wearing your CB?

D

Thats a very good point. They might make up their minds to screw around with you so you end up missing your flight or get taken for "internal" inspection.

Anyway, yes! boundaries or just being polite to those not involved in your intimate life. Stopping air travel because someone wants to be sure your not wearing exploding underpants or are trying to smuggle in something is (I think) a good thing. Heck you can make unlocked time work if your creative or just make it a vacation from male chastity or???

I think the wearing pink panties to the doctors exam is a perfect example of reasons I would NOT want to dabble with this lifestyle btw. Humiliation? I never got that as a thrill but the dragging random medical people into your kink? Just seems rude to me. Anyway, another note that I appreciate you folks and your more mainstream variation of MC.

[likes2blocked]

I can totally be trusted to do whatever she told me to.

Yah, that's what they all say... Trust me! Yeah, that's the ticket!

[Atone]

http://www.amazon.com/Security-Original ... d_sim_hi_6

I think I would sooner go through a security checkpoint and have to explain why I was wearing a CB6k (if noticed) or even the steelheart than explain why I have a lockbox that I can't open and they can't x-ray in my checked bags.

-A

[Shane67]

.. than explain why I have a lockbox that I can't open and they can't x-ray in my checked bags.
-A

Actually, using the protocol I outlined, lock boxes are always unlocked and open for inspection while going through security.