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Any good reading out there on this subject? It was one of the things suggested in my thread about pain during release. I saw in Sara's newsletter today that last Tuesday's was focused on the "Ultimate" ruined orgasm but unfortunately I just signed up last Thursday and I don't believe you can get back issues of the Tuesday ones.

This is one of the things we will probably have to try and was wondering if anyone had any tips.
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I blogged about this here:

http://devotedlvr.wordpress.com/2010/10 ... ed-orgasm/

and received lots of good comments. That should provide some info.

As I say in the blog, Ab and I have never done this and we haven't done it yet. There's a part of me that feels like it seems incredibly mean (and I may be way off base, but that's how it feels). We were having sex last night (yes, we were!) and Ab said, "Do I have permission to come?" For a second I thought of saying, "Let's do the ruined orgasm thing," but I didn't...I figure, he was very patient during a long period of denial (two months) and he was patient during a weekend that didn't go quite according to plan so it's not really fair for me to go ruining something that he hasn't had much of lately.

If we ever do try it, it will probably be something we have talked about and know in our minds that is what we are trying to do. And then we'll find out if he likes it or not and I will be better able to judge the mean thing.

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jnuts wrote: This is one of the things we will probably have to try ....
I love that attitude. Yes dear, we *have* to try this. In the interest of science you know .........

If you find any good reading be sure to share.

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Good stuff Dev!

Wife and I discussed this lastnight. I was allowed to have an orgasm last night and it was much better. The mind blowing experience im used to with her. We have decided to go another week, but this time, a day or two prior to my release day, we are going to try the ruined orgasm thing. Hoping that the decreased volume will decrease the pressure and make my release that comes after less uncomfortable.

One of us will let you guys know how it goes Im sure. Afterall, we are doing it for the good of mankind. :)
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jnuts wrote:Afterall, we are doing it for the good of mankind. :)
That's the spirit!
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Ok.....been there, done that, stained the t-shirt. I really don't want to be one of those people that pushes their blog constantly but since it did take me 6 attempts to publish it from my iPhone before breaking out the laptop, and I'm really f'ing tired...

http://nuts4belle.wordpress.com/2010/10 ... -orgasm-2/
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Great post, jnuts. Thanks! Sounds like there was lots of fun going on in bedrooms all over the world last night. I know we did our best to burn up the sheets. :D
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jnuts wrote: I really don't want to be one of those people that pushes their blog constantly but since it did take me 6 attempts to publish it from my iPhone before breaking out the laptop,
1) Most of us would have languished in obscurity if we weren't pimping our blogs.

2) Wordpress has a nice app for blog publishibng. It works well on Android, and it's much easier than using the built in browser.
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Yeah, the iphone app likes to say it has published the blog when it really hasn't and crash when you try to refresh. :(. Hopefully an update is around the corner.
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I must admit it was kinda funny to watch in a somewhat sadistic way 8-)
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