"Hello world" thread
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windycityslaveboy
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Re: "Hello world" thread
34 year old submissive who is captivated by chastity and submission. Currently single and locked without a keyholder.
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MrAtticusFinch
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Re: "Hello world" thread
Good morning...
We are newbies but are taking to the whole FLR and male chastity lifestyle like ducks to water. We have always been equals in our relationship and have always shown respect for each other. Our sex life was very good but had naturally progressed from sizzling hot to smouldering - the typical comfortable, mature relationship. Very nice, but sex had gone from at least daily down to short intense periods of rabbit-like and then extended periods of very little.
We have always enjoyed experimenting and are good communicators.
A few months ago I had a desire to make a gesture that would demonstrate my devotion to her. I am a voracious researcher and I stumbled onto male chastity somewhat by accident. I knew, however, that this had promise.
Our interest is not pain or blatant kink. Our interest is to make sure that our relationship is the absolute best it can be. The aspects of this lifestyle that resonated most with me were the writings on how there is a psychological shift for the male when denied and/of caged. I wanted us to experience this. I have long studied the teaching of the Tao and it is interesting to me that ancient Chinese believed in the benefits of controlling the male orgasm.
One week ago, on our anniversary, I left her a letter explaining Male chastity - what it was, what I wanted out of it, what I hoped she would get out of it, etc... I also enclosed a Male Chastity Contract which clearly laid out the rules for what I hoped she would want to participate in.
She had never heard of any of this and it was a bit of a surprise to her. She is very open minded and understood exactly what it was that I was suggesting. With a huge smile she agreed instantly to sign the contract and get going.
So far we are really enjoying the benefits. We are communicating way better than ever before. We are feeling sexy constantly. I have noticed a shift in my approach to her and she is really appreciating it. Most of all, we are having real fun with it.
I have a few technical queries which I hope may be answered here. I also want to share experiences and issues and solutions in case it might help others who, like me, could really benefit from the experience of those engaged in this lifestyle for longer.
I'm sure that is more than enough of a "Hello". I look forward to being involved in the discussions.
We are newbies but are taking to the whole FLR and male chastity lifestyle like ducks to water. We have always been equals in our relationship and have always shown respect for each other. Our sex life was very good but had naturally progressed from sizzling hot to smouldering - the typical comfortable, mature relationship. Very nice, but sex had gone from at least daily down to short intense periods of rabbit-like and then extended periods of very little.
We have always enjoyed experimenting and are good communicators.
A few months ago I had a desire to make a gesture that would demonstrate my devotion to her. I am a voracious researcher and I stumbled onto male chastity somewhat by accident. I knew, however, that this had promise.
Our interest is not pain or blatant kink. Our interest is to make sure that our relationship is the absolute best it can be. The aspects of this lifestyle that resonated most with me were the writings on how there is a psychological shift for the male when denied and/of caged. I wanted us to experience this. I have long studied the teaching of the Tao and it is interesting to me that ancient Chinese believed in the benefits of controlling the male orgasm.
One week ago, on our anniversary, I left her a letter explaining Male chastity - what it was, what I wanted out of it, what I hoped she would get out of it, etc... I also enclosed a Male Chastity Contract which clearly laid out the rules for what I hoped she would want to participate in.
She had never heard of any of this and it was a bit of a surprise to her. She is very open minded and understood exactly what it was that I was suggesting. With a huge smile she agreed instantly to sign the contract and get going.
So far we are really enjoying the benefits. We are communicating way better than ever before. We are feeling sexy constantly. I have noticed a shift in my approach to her and she is really appreciating it. Most of all, we are having real fun with it.
I have a few technical queries which I hope may be answered here. I also want to share experiences and issues and solutions in case it might help others who, like me, could really benefit from the experience of those engaged in this lifestyle for longer.
I'm sure that is more than enough of a "Hello". I look forward to being involved in the discussions.
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Re: "Hello world" thread
I am a real live person (that sounds like a good ama for reddit), been
interested in this stuff for years, spouse seemed receptive, but concerned
about pain and lack of sleep during break-in period, so haven't done
anything other than reduce frequency.
interested in this stuff for years, spouse seemed receptive, but concerned
about pain and lack of sleep during break-in period, so haven't done
anything other than reduce frequency.
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Haha, love how everyone is like "hey look at me, I'm a live person". lmao.
Anywho, figured I would add another "new person" post. Been around reading for awhile (I hate when people use lurking as term to describe it, as it sounds ultra creeper).
Anyways, been in chastity for quite some time now. Sorta lost track of how long really. Not like it matters anyways, as time keeps a moving on a keeping track of what has been done time length time will never change the time length of the future.
Other than that, in a Mature Metal cage, which is pretty damn comfy. 24/7 for some longer stints. Def a permanent lifestyle and will be something that wont ever be considered to stop wearing, asides from the rare release.
Figure thats about it. Nothing really much left to crap in this one post ordeal.
Anywho, figured I would add another "new person" post. Been around reading for awhile (I hate when people use lurking as term to describe it, as it sounds ultra creeper).
Anyways, been in chastity for quite some time now. Sorta lost track of how long really. Not like it matters anyways, as time keeps a moving on a keeping track of what has been done time length time will never change the time length of the future.
Other than that, in a Mature Metal cage, which is pretty damn comfy. 24/7 for some longer stints. Def a permanent lifestyle and will be something that wont ever be considered to stop wearing, asides from the rare release.
Figure thats about it. Nothing really much left to crap in this one post ordeal.
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Re: "Hello world" thread
Hi All - real person here, who recently began a Female Lead Marriage, of which chastity is a requirement. Looking forward to the conversation & support!
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Leadedjava1
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Re: "Hello world" thread
Hello all, my name is Vance, I am from the mountain states. I joined this forum for two reasons. I have a chastity kink that I'm trying to scratch, and I am trying to be more passionate and attentive with my wife. I currently have a steel cage that is made of rings that are welded together on their bottom sides. It is a knockoff I'm sure, I found it cheap for initial trials.
I hope to learn to be more appreciative of my wife, increase my libido and,pick up the tricks of longer term wear from you folks who have been doing this for a while. Hopefully this doesn't get deleted as spam. I look forward to interacting with you.
Vance
I hope to learn to be more appreciative of my wife, increase my libido and,pick up the tricks of longer term wear from you folks who have been doing this for a while. Hopefully this doesn't get deleted as spam. I look forward to interacting with you.
Vance
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ZalanDarkbane
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Re: "Hello world" thread
Hello World!
I am a new user, who has been interested in chastity stories for a while, but recently I have decided to start doing more than just reading about the topic. I am going to be making a decision to purchase my first device probably within the next 2 months. Currently, I'm planning on getting one of the Chinese made CB3000s due to the low cost and some of the features, the POI, the lighter weight of the plastic cage, etc. The CB6000 and cb6000s also are potential purchases, but the reported splitting of the cage worries me at this point.
As far as different fetishes go, I'm pretty open minded to trying different things. Some things are absolute turn offs for me, such as cuckolding. I see relationships as monogamous. I am fairly sensitive and value equality, so things like femdom and humiliation (either giving or receiving) don't interest me much at all.
Demographics wise, Male, Straight (but open minded), Living in the Tampa, FL area, 40, and am a terribly shy person.
I am a new user, who has been interested in chastity stories for a while, but recently I have decided to start doing more than just reading about the topic. I am going to be making a decision to purchase my first device probably within the next 2 months. Currently, I'm planning on getting one of the Chinese made CB3000s due to the low cost and some of the features, the POI, the lighter weight of the plastic cage, etc. The CB6000 and cb6000s also are potential purchases, but the reported splitting of the cage worries me at this point.
As far as different fetishes go, I'm pretty open minded to trying different things. Some things are absolute turn offs for me, such as cuckolding. I see relationships as monogamous. I am fairly sensitive and value equality, so things like femdom and humiliation (either giving or receiving) don't interest me much at all.
Demographics wise, Male, Straight (but open minded), Living in the Tampa, FL area, 40, and am a terribly shy person.
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Re: "Hello world" thread
Hi all,
David here. First posting here, its going to be a short one, just to prevent me from being deleted again.
The wife and I have been practicing MC for a little less than a year now with some pretty good results, if I do say so myself. The longest period I've been locked, so for, is 62 days. And am on day 44 of my current lock down.
David here. First posting here, its going to be a short one, just to prevent me from being deleted again.
The wife and I have been practicing MC for a little less than a year now with some pretty good results, if I do say so myself. The longest period I've been locked, so for, is 62 days. And am on day 44 of my current lock down.
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Tom Allen
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Re: "Hello world" thread
Sorry about the deletion. Some of our mods :coff coff: are "shoot first and ask questions later" types when de-spamming. Glad you made it through.
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Tom Allen
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Re: "Hello world" thread
Hello world, you guys do delete non posting users quick... so here I am, please don't delete me again I'm a real boy I promos!
Name is Unca, I am a 28 year old living in NC. I am very active and work in the telecom industry in as a cell tower foreman, climbing to heights of 300ft on a regular basis. My partner and I are somewhat kinky and dominant, we purchase toys to use on our subs and a metal chastity device was one of them. When it arrived I was more curious than I had expected and decided to try it on... total mind fuck not being able to touch myself was odd. I handed the keys to Shane and he looked at me confused, then he got it. He decided not to give me the keys back till later that night and that was a good thing because I couldnt' stand the pain of my morning wood an it had to come off. I put it on a few more times and then more and more then decided to commit to it and ordered a second one for our toy box so I could keep mine. I wore this one daily for weeks but always kept the key with me for those difficult and painful times, I wanted to surrender totally but knew that this device wasn't comfortable enough for that so I went online and did my research and went with the bon 4. I work out of town for a week at a time so I made the order and knew it would be at the house when I got home. On Friday I swapped out the chrome one for my new black bon 4 and kept it on all weekend them planed to go out of town for the week, I took the key with me just in case. I found that at the top where the cage straps into the back ring it caused irritation so I took the back ring and applied a piece of silicone tape that would fold over the point that was rubbing... that stuff is awesome and I'm sure it would work with any 100% silicone device. I went back in town and Shane swapped out he lock for a plastic number tag, new dimension to the mind fuck now. Then came Monday morning and I had to lave for work locked up with no key, that week was torture but knowing that I would be released Friday night made it bearable. I got a call Friday at 2:00pm that we had to stay out over the weekend and not return home till next Friday... that was two days ago so now it has been 9 days and I have 5 more to go. I like to watch porn in the hotel at night but can't do that now... just thinking about it makes me ache and leak. I must say this device is nice now that I put the tape on the back ring, morning time still gets me but I just get up and go piss and the pain subsides enough to call back in bed and get back to sleep. I am kinda worried because Shane doesn't really care about my dick when it comes to sex so I ay wind up locked longer than I had expected.
Name is Unca, I am a 28 year old living in NC. I am very active and work in the telecom industry in as a cell tower foreman, climbing to heights of 300ft on a regular basis. My partner and I are somewhat kinky and dominant, we purchase toys to use on our subs and a metal chastity device was one of them. When it arrived I was more curious than I had expected and decided to try it on... total mind fuck not being able to touch myself was odd. I handed the keys to Shane and he looked at me confused, then he got it. He decided not to give me the keys back till later that night and that was a good thing because I couldnt' stand the pain of my morning wood an it had to come off. I put it on a few more times and then more and more then decided to commit to it and ordered a second one for our toy box so I could keep mine. I wore this one daily for weeks but always kept the key with me for those difficult and painful times, I wanted to surrender totally but knew that this device wasn't comfortable enough for that so I went online and did my research and went with the bon 4. I work out of town for a week at a time so I made the order and knew it would be at the house when I got home. On Friday I swapped out the chrome one for my new black bon 4 and kept it on all weekend them planed to go out of town for the week, I took the key with me just in case. I found that at the top where the cage straps into the back ring it caused irritation so I took the back ring and applied a piece of silicone tape that would fold over the point that was rubbing... that stuff is awesome and I'm sure it would work with any 100% silicone device. I went back in town and Shane swapped out he lock for a plastic number tag, new dimension to the mind fuck now. Then came Monday morning and I had to lave for work locked up with no key, that week was torture but knowing that I would be released Friday night made it bearable. I got a call Friday at 2:00pm that we had to stay out over the weekend and not return home till next Friday... that was two days ago so now it has been 9 days and I have 5 more to go. I like to watch porn in the hotel at night but can't do that now... just thinking about it makes me ache and leak. I must say this device is nice now that I put the tape on the back ring, morning time still gets me but I just get up and go piss and the pain subsides enough to call back in bed and get back to sleep. I am kinda worried because Shane doesn't really care about my dick when it comes to sex so I ay wind up locked longer than I had expected.
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